The "Real" ladies of Orange County are having a pool party at the St. Regis Monarch Beach in Dana Point -- and dishing to "Extra" about the upcoming season, cheating and whether opposite sexes can really be "just friends."

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You may not be an Orange County housewife -- but you can live like one for a weekend! Check out "Extra's" St. Regis Monarch Beach giveaway here.