Sandra, you are not selfish, you are
such a tremendous career woman, but it
is not too late to have a child. My
Mom had me at 42! I am the last of 8
children in my family. My Mom was the
best, she was so caring and understanding and had more patience at
her age and I was spoiled rotten!
I saw the Blindside and your performance
was outstanding! You are a great actress! Keep up the good work!

First of all, she’s just being polite and self-effacing, not judgmental of others. Secondly, she DOES give much of her income to help others. Better not to speak of something you know nothing about, than reveal yourself as uninformed and foolish.

First, I agree with Elise that Sandra has a choice in her life as to whether she has children of her own, or not. Selfish is to never do anything good for anyone, but yourself. She’s given more than enough, as do a handful of actors, musicians, and what have you by simply providing the world, or most of it anyway, with her brilliant performance for her audience. Also, I’m quite certain that Sandra’s social responsibility has been fulfilled in many ways, including the donating of some of her earnings where she feels it’s needed. I love you Sandy for giving me the laughter when needed.

Sandra…

Dogmatic, much?

Not having kids isn’t a selfish thing. It’s a life choice. More more, no less.

You can make the world a better place in lots of ways…parenting is just one of them. I’m a devoted auntie, teach music to middle and high school kids for short money, and I’ve been a Big Sister. But I guess, according to your rules, I’m just a selfish hag.

If you want to be less selfish, why not give 40 or 50% of your gargantuan income away to help the truly needy children and animals around the world, instead of saying that every last one of us ought to produce more kids of our own or we’re “selfish”?

The navel-gazing of the Hollywood set never ceases to make my jaw drop.

Smart talented and amazing!! Okay, I am a fan, but she truly is. Eagerly awaiting “The Blind Side” to premier. That is one busy week they went for the premier.