Jon Slams Kate: I 'Despise' Her

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Estranged reality parents Jon and Kate apparently have nothing left to say to each other, but Jon took the opportunity during a recent sit-down to blast rumors about his relationship with his ex.

Jon revealed on "Good Morning America" that things between the exes have gotten so bad that they can't even be in the same room together to film the show. "We film it separately," Jon admitted. "She has her film crew. And I have my film crew. But I can't sit on the sofa with that woman. I can't sit on the couch next to someone I despise... I despise [her] because she's not speaking from the heart," he said, adding, "Please -- the stuff you tell me in private should be the stuff you tell me on TV (sic)."

Kate released a statement to ABC regarding how she feels about revealing her personal life with Jon. "While I certainly have a very different perception of how our marriage dissolved, for the sake of my children I maintain that I'm not going to go into details of aspects I believe should remain private."

Gosselin also slammed his ex for using her wedding ring -- which she still wears -- to elicit sympathy from the public. "I think she still wears the ring for public perception," he said. "I don't wear my ring because she took my ring. I don't have it." Jon added, "So I laid it down one night. It was gone. Who else would take it? I checked all the -- underneath my kids' pillows. That's where everything ends up in the house anyway. So it wasn't there."

Jon, who is dating 22-year-old Hailey Glassman, defends the relationship with Kate's doc's daughter -- and maintains he was never unfaithful to Kate. He believes their marriage "will never be fixed." He said, "I didn't leave Kate for Hailey. People think I left Kate for Hailey... because of the time frame and what they printed in the tabloids. You can't control who you love. I strongly believe that. You cannot control that. It's two people joined together."

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Jon gushed about Hailey, "I get encouragement from her, I get respect from her -- two things that a man needs. This is someone, I mean, like soul mate -- like people joke about that. But I'm not joking about that."

Gosselin also denies romantic relationships with Deanna Hummel, whom he calls "a friend," and Kate Major, the ex-Star magazine reporter who claims to have "fallen" for the reality dad after a whirlwind romance. The father-of-eight does wonder whether rumors about Kate romancing bodyguard Steve Nield are valid. "I speculate, but I don't know -- that's a general feel. You know, almost like when they were traveling together, I felt jealous. Here, I'm Mr. Mom. And then there's some other guy traveling with my wife. Whether it's protection or not, it's all in -- it's in the back of my mind."

Despite their differences, Jon admits that he will always "love Kate as the mother of my kids. But to tell you right now, at this point of what's going on, I do not love Kate."

comments

I don’t feel sorry for Jon at all. He reminds me of my ex whom I was married to for 17 years and he just decided that he wanted a divorce. He was going through mid-life crisis and when he did his whole attitude changed, he was very angry, blamed me for everything and really never saw much of his children. Jon is doing the same thing although he is a little young to be going through mid-life crisis. As far as his wedding ring, why would he want to wear it if he dispised Kate so much. I feel sorry for Jon because in the end, if he continues on the path he is following, he will end up loosing everything including his children’s respect.

Mary Lou
September 11, 2009

I agree with Jon. On one episode she was so upset over him not using a coupon for something from the hardware store, she talked to him like he was a child. Truth be know, he probably did not have to even pay for it. Also, agree Mattie is a brat, always crying, more than any of them, when she does not get her way. You go Jon and have a good life, but also be a good dad to your kids and be there when they need you which I think you will. No one likes to be belittled in public and it is about time he spoke out, she has and please remind her to say “our” kids, not always “my” kids.

Elaine
September 9, 2009

there is something very wrong with this show that it is still on the air! the first time I noticed they were getting all the freebies and still whinning that they couldn’t afford the trips and all the “stuff” they got for nothing I knew this family was a lie. Kate is a hag and John is whipped. The oldest girl Mattie is going to be a problem when she is older! She is just like her mom! I feel sorry for the kids to have a shrew like Kate for a mom and a whimp like John for a dad…there is no hope for them if they continue down this path! END THIS SHOW NOW!!!

anonymous
September 8, 2009

jon should remember the saying “you cant be walked on if youre not lying down.” sure she may have berated him, but he took it for 10 years. if it was that bad he shouldve stood up for himself earlier. as far as i could see, she HAD to nag him otherwise he didnt do anything helpful. with 8 kids id be a control freak too, trying to organize the kids and her husband too!

anonymous
September 8, 2009

I have always felt sorry for Jon. I was berated by a family member for many years—it’s abuse—without a doubt. I just don’t think he should have taken the bologna. I think Kate is a fool if she thinks America is buying her whole act. I never bought her ‘feel sorry for me’ thing. I think TLC should end this show. It’s a train wreck.

Briana
September 8, 2009

JG needs to MAN UP! What self-respecting father would take to the media to tell his children’s mother: “I DESPISE YOU”. The only message this sends them is that JG is a narcissistic jerk who wants them to suffer even more than than their mother. This man needs some serious time on the couch of a great shrink to realize his personal life should be “on hold” and his sole focus should be on helping his children through this confusing and stressful time.

Lara
September 8, 2009

If he’s so positive that Kate took the ring, why was he looking under the kid’s pillows for it? One of them probably flushed it down the toilet.
After this interview, any shred of sympathy I had for this fool is now gone.

sam
September 8, 2009
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