Okay this is getting out of hand. I am so sick of hearing about Chris and Rihanna. Is it a slow news year? Is this all thats going on in the world? Everybody has so much to say about the incident between the two because they are famous. If it were two normal people you wouldn’t even blink an eye. I’m sure some of you know of someone who is in a abusive relationship. What have you done to help them? Did you jus turn your head and pretend that it wasn’t happening? If so, then you have nothing to say about the relationship of Chris and Rihanna. It’s easy 2 publicly bash someone famous for doing something that we think is wrong but what about those normal people, your neighbors who are doing the samething. No i am not saying what he did was right. I do not believe in abuse of any kind. But I am not going to condemn him 2 Hell for his mistake. My Bible says that we should forgive because we are forgiven. No one knows what really happened except Chris and Rihanna and God. Don’t make judgements when you do not have all the facts. If we all were treated the way you are treating him for his mistakes, this would be a sad world. If it comes out that he wasn’t responsible for the beating then you all who posted negative comments or publicly said negative things about him should be sued for defermation (sp) of character. That is all that I have to say about this situation. Just don’t judge if you don’t know all the facts.

Thanks for your time.

Yeah, DONNA - I’ll just BET he looked SOOO sexy while he was bouncing rhianna’s head against the car window, like the gorilla he is - wow, he’s a catch!!!!

I do not believe in men who beat women but at the same time I also believe that if you do not want to be hit you should not hit anyone. I do believe that Chris is wrong for putting his hands on Rhianna but I do not believe that he should do jail time. He has already been crusified in the eyes of the public and has lost a great deal of respect, fans & endorsements. He is being punished right now. I also believe that he is being set as the poster child and I dont believe that is right.

First, comes the plea deal - THEN comes the movie deal. Such is ‘life’ inside the fantasy fish-bowl.

Hey guys just leave this birds alone they know whats best for them. you don’t just throw love away bc of a lil misunderstanding

why did you went back with him

RIHANNA u r sooooooooo dum for marryin chris! he beat u for pete’s sake!

hey did you guys get my gaggle@net.com write back

Ani Esmailian from Hollyscoop.com reveals to “Extra” that the couple has been violent with each other before. “It isn’t the first time Chris Brown has fought back and that’s according to Rihanna’s statement,” Ani explains. “According to a source familiar with the case, there was actually an altercation three months ago when the couple was in Europe and it resulted in Rihanna slapping Chris Brown and him having to put her up against the wall to calm her down.”

…the couple HAS been violent with each other before?

…the couple WAS in Europe?

Are the above extracts examples of good grammar?

“According to a source familiar with the case, there was actually an altercation ….

Could journalism like this land someone in court? Can you use “According to…” in the same sentence as “there was actually…” and get away with it?

Ani Esmailian allegedly has a BA in English.

And appears to be an apologist for male violence against women as in ‘Chris Brown HAVING to put her [Rihanna] up against the wall.’

Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear…

Everyone should leave these kids alone. Everyone that have there prima donna and macho opinions should let these kids do whats right for them. How can you turn the love off like a faucet. How can these kids just turn off there love for each other because its best for others. Things happen. Mistakes happen and you learn and are stronger from them when you work them out in there own time, not others that think they know whats better for them. Chris and Rhianna make your love stronger and better from this. Do whats right for you.

rihanna i say this as a mother of 3 girls and woman who has experienced domestic voilence during my 1st marriage.i had no car,no money,2 kids,even no home to go to and we as the public wonder why when you can get away.you have resources.i got out but my children were hurt the most.i bought jordins cd w/no air but i will not for chris.trust me it will get worse.dont let it affect your pysical being or your career.he’s not worth it.and you deserve much better.but if you choose this relationship i dont think my daughters will think of you as a role model again.why condone what he did?

Chris you can do better than rihanna, come she isn’t that great looking. you can have any girl you want but why her come on!!!!!!!!
She doesn’t desevre you so gorgoues in many ways please if she gonna treat you like sh!t let her find someone else to start sh!t with not you

CHRIS YOU MAKE GREAT MUSIC AND WHEN THIS IS ALL DONE AND SAID YOU NEED TO LEAVE THAT SO$$Y A$$ B$TCH ALONE CUZ SHE IS CRAZY AND YOU DONT NEED A SIMPLE MINDED B$TCH THAT GETS MAD OVER A F$CKING TEXT BABY YOU CAN DO WAY BETTER THEN RIHANNA!!

She prob. deserved it! Some girls r reckless, its bs that the girl can hit up on the guy but the sec. he does something about it, its all over the news

I think this is wrong. This is where the media needs to change.

This will show all young people, and older people, that domestic violence is OK. She was, allegedly, hit by Brown and now she wants to marry. We all know that domestic violence does not change. If this is indeed true, then it needs to be downplayed by the media

II have a 13year old niece who slapped my 14 year old son because he was talking smack. He didn’t call her out her name or antyhing according to the other teens around, he was just irritating her. The other teens had to stop him from hitting her. She was not remorseful and pretty boastful, My sis spoke to her and I spoke to my son who’s face was red as heck from her smacking him. He din’t understand why he couldn’t hit back. I had to calm him down and explain to him not to hit girls no matter what. However, his emotions was all over the place and she was pretty smilely about what took place. Honestly deep down I wanted my son to retaliate, because my niece knows that I teach my boys not to hit girls, so she took advantage of the opportunity. America, you all know that is not fair at all. Well I’m happy to report nothing has taken place since the, but I do believe if she tries my son again, although that is my niece and no adult is not around he may just give her what she is looking for. As for CB & Rhi, I do believe Rhianna hit, first. No reason for CB to get out of control at all. Hope they can get past this, my prayers are with them both and I support both of the musically. Keep making music CB & Rhi. It’s your choice if you all remain together, learn to love the right way…And Grow Up!!! Peace

I think there may have been REDFLAGS long ago on behalf of both Rihanna & Chris. Unfortuntely, my better half was brutally beaten by her kids father and was subject to a coma for a year and now, today walks with a cane, after 10 years. My message to Rihanna & Chris, DON’T WAIT UNTIL YOUR SERIOUSLY HURT OR DEAD BEFORE ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!

I knew she struck first. I was young once and insecure at 19 years old not knowing how to handle situations concerning my man and other women. I use to go off to, not something I’m proud about. I could tell with this couple, CB is the flirty type who probably yearns for that kind of attention from a woman snapping off at him. Violence is not the answer, but I bet he played mind games with Rhianna, and Ladies be honest when you think you are the only one and your guy is the one you planned to spend the rest of your life with and he leads you to think that, I bet you this was how they relationship was. So she snapped to the fullest, especially reading a 3-page text from on your man phone from another female? Ladies be honest, Some women out here will not keep it real, just want to be sneaky about things. Sounds crazy , but be honest. I know women who slashed tires, bust windows, etc. When found out their man was stepping out on them. No it is not right, but it happens everyday, be honest. Its something about a woman feeling rejected that don’t sit well. It takes experience and maturing for a woman to learn how to deal with a cheating man. Meaning, keeping quiet and doing your own thing. A Mature woman don’t snap, so Rhi & Chris have a lot of growing to do, because a Real Man keeps is side chicks in check. On another note, they are both legal adults, so I wish them well, I pray that they learn how to be in a mature relationship and deal with realtionship issues. Celebs and the Media need to be transparent and hones about this issue and not so biased. If Rhianna throught the first hit, which I think she did, just by me being a female, I know how females tend to be, especially those immature, but if she hit first, she needs to be honest about this whole matter although CB lost his mind on her, which is not Cool at all. I hope their careers do not suffer at all. No one life is perfect, no one. There are plenty of Celebs who are going through similar issues, believe that…. Its just low key. I hope they do not go on Oprah, she is out of her lane on this one. Its funny the ones with no kids, no husband, no Real Issues, seems to have all the advise in the world for everyone. Oprah is not God. CB & Rhiannna, pray about the issue at hand ask God for forgiveness, and to heck with the world. You all owe no one any answers only each other and God. You both see now who your friends truly are.

If she takes him back or marries that immature mentally screwed up abuser she will get the hell beat out of her again. She must have come from an abusive family herself. She will eventially learn but I guess she will have to learn the hard way ,through experience.Why can’t people learn from other peoples mistakes. I guess love is blind.

As a survivor of 14yrs of domestic violence yes I think he should get a plea, I believe she hit him first and he defended his self……I can tell the difference between self-defence and abuse. If you listen to her music it is full of self-serving lyrics. I think that Chris is the one getting the raw end of the deal. We all tend to jump on the womens side, we should look deeper……she’s a little off….listen to her music !