Trust me I was married to an abuser, it is always promises and sweet talk afterward!!, he went thru counseling and anger management nothing helped, I got 2 beautiful children out of the relationship, got divorced when my children were very little, i did not want the cycle to continue, a couple of years later, I met a wonderful man, who adopted my children, and 15 years later I am happy and not battered, and my children live a happy secure life, Move on, and do better for yourself!!

That Is not True once a abuser always an abuser…people can change..and no im not takin up for him but if people dont change…then thats like sayin there is no God! I have seen lots of abusers in my life time and they do change it just takes admitting what you are and wanting to change who you are…also whos perfect?? Any body has a chance of snapping on someone beatin the hell outta of them…no ones perfect people can change!! Plus hes young theres time for him to learn and change! Lets just sit back and watch God do his work!!

She needs to go to counseling about abuse. It’ll never get any better. If he has did this before & she said he has, then what makes her think it will get any better,it will only be worst & the next time she might end up in the morge. For her sake I hope she opens her eyes & realizes he’ll never change.

well rihanna and chris i wish u 2 the best ant no way in the wolrd a boy will hit me and i will do back with him so rihanna his life will be ending wright there when you hi my causin my uncle’s will would had @$%! his wolrd u

LAPD cops interviewed Rihanna after the attack and she told them Brown had been violent toward her in the past and that the attacks were getting “more violent” as time went on.

- the attacks were getting “more violent” as time went on.

The L.A. County District Attorney has just charged Chris Brown with felony assault and making criminal threats, also a felony.

Rihanna,Please listen & hear what people who really care about you.He will lie,cheat,beat,& treat you like a piece of trash.Once an abuser always an abuser,just ask Tina Turner an there are a lot of women like her who have survived an abusive mate.There are also a lot who din’t.You are worth more than what you will ever get,or who you can be as long as you are with that low life abuser.He will cry,& beg just to stay with you,because he has your number especially if you stay with him.He will wine,dine,lie,& do whatever to get ya back or to stay with you.I bet he does’nt trust you,checks up on you,always wants to know who,what or where you are.I also bet he’s very controling or at least tries real hard.He’ll always blame everything on you & make you feel like your nothing without him(I sure hope that’s not what you think)It’s not true.He is the one who deep down is insecure,jealous & mistrusting.He even looks like an abuser,cocky & mean.He deserves to be punished for what he did to you & I bet your not the first one either.Please be brave & stay alive,stay away from him.It would be sad if he would disfigure you(just to keep you to himself,away from other people) or heaven forbid kills you.I bet he’s not loyal to you,but he’ll acuse you of cheating.Abusers, you really need to listen,will do whatever to keep you where they want you

Shocking Blow-By-Blow - Chris Brown/Rihanna
Posted Mar 5th 2009 8:51AM by TMZ Staff

Shocking new evidence about what happened in the car the night Chris Brown allegedly beat Rihanna.

FOX 11 in L.A. obtained LAPD detectives notes from a search warrant in the case. According to the notes, Rihanna read a three-page text message on Brown’s phone from a woman. An argument ensued and Brown allegedly tried forcing Rihanna out of the car but couldn’t because she was wearing her seat belt.

Brown then allegedly shoved Rihanna’s head against the passenger window. When Rihanna turned to face him, Brown punched her, then continued punching her while driving, according to the detective’s notes.

Blood spattered all over Rihanna’s clothing and in the interior of the car. Her mouth was filled with blood.

Brown allegedly told Rihanna, “I’m going to beat the **** out of you when we get home. You wait and see.”

Rihanna called her assistant and left a message saying, “I am on my way home. Make sure the cops are there when I get there.”

Brown then replied, “You just did the stupidest thing ever. I’m going to kill you.”

According to the report, Brown continued to punch Rihanna, bit her on her ear, her fingers and put her in a headlock — she almost lost consciousness.

LAPD cops interviewed Rihanna after the attack and she told them Brown had been violent toward her in the past and that the attacks were getting “more violent” as time went on. The interview is potent evidence if the L.A. County D.A. charges Brown with felony domestic battery, and that could happen as early as today.

And there’s something else. The photo that TMZ obtained showing Rihanna battered, bloody and bruised is mild compared to other photos. We’ve learned additional pics were taken on February 9, the day after the attack, and they are far more gruesome — the bruises and swelling far more pronounced. We’re told these photos show injuries that could be devastating in a case against Brown.

- Brown had been violent toward her in the past

lydia….sorry sis but you should realize that more than one person posts as anonymous….no real reason for me to post that way but I did. I could care less if they reconcile or not. check out media takeout for the story about Rhianna smashing her brother in the face with a bottle. this was not the only time or place that this story has been told. I seriously doubt that rhianna read a 3 pg text from another woman and did nothing.

Rihanna and Chris are drop dead gorgeous. That’s part of the reason their privacy is invaded. They don’t need any help on their relationship from Jay-Z. Their old enough to know what they want. I think things can really work out betwen them if they go to counseling. Go sit down Hillary and worry about your own life.

Anonymous, I’m so sick of your postings on all of EXTRA’s articles about the reconciliation phase of domestic violence. Are you working together with the other string of short negative comments coming from so called girls? You really need to get a grip. I doubt you know anything about these 2 singers. As young as they are, they have plenty of time to get back on track. If they want to try to work things out, that’s up to them, not the public.

why is nothing being said about rhianna’s history of jealousy and violence? She smashed her own brother in the face with a bottle during an argument.
there is no excuse for a man to assault a woman..but I do believe in self defense. this girl who is known to have a violent temper is nearly 6’ tall and I’m sure she can hold her own in most brawls. besides that…has anyone noticed that the so called bruises on her eyes happen to be the same color as the eye shadow that she wore that night?

Rihanna is going to lie to get CB off the hook. That’s typical of an abused victim to blame themselves. Even if she hit him first, look how big he is compared to her. It’s no match. Chris should have used his brain instead of his hands and walked away until he cooled off. How can she stand it, the same hands that beat her are the same hands that CB is using to pat her, to hug her,,ugh. Rihanna thinks abuse means CB loves her. She is dead wrong.

rehanna needs to make better judgements on her life.i hope her family steps up and ya there going top support her desission but they need to make her realize what she is doing is wrong.next time it can go further than this. obviously he has hit her before.its a cycle his father, him & what next his child when he has one because he will grow up seeing this sad sad i just hope she leaves before its to late.

I can’t believe she would want to bring a child into an abusive relationship. Once an abuser, always an abuser. What if his abuse turns on the child? Then will she see him for the scum he is?

This is so sad to me because I really like Rihanna. Well anyway the next time he hit her nobody will be there for her and I will not feel sorry for her either. Both of their careers will be effected. It’s said that at her young age she finds his actions acceptable. Young girls please know your worth before getting a man. Didn’t Chris Brown look sorry on his jet ski?

Ia she crazy!!! This guy is a #1 loser. She is going to ruin her life with him. She cant be too smart. What a disapointment she is.

i also think she was probably hitting on him for him to go off like that my neighbor hits his wife i tried helping her but that didn’t work i really think she likes it she wont leave and she pushes his buttons until he hits her then she tries to play the victim oh well you always have options.

How do people even know he was abusing her, domestic violence is when someone constantly is hitting on their partner, this is the first time we ever heard about something like this between these 2 people, and how do we know she didn’t assault him first, does that make her right? by her going back to him knowing how high profiled this situation is to me that just shows that this assault clearly didn’t happen the way people making it seem. I believe that they were hitting on eachother and how did chris face look before he turned himself in I doubt very seriously that he just gone haul off and start hitting that girl out of the clear blue putting his career and freedom at risk!!!!