Jesse on the Big Breakup -- and the Future

November 13, 2008 | Rumor Control
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Is Jesse Csincsak ready to talk about the end of his engagement with "The Bachelorette" star DeAnna Pappas? The former lovebirds gave rock steady relationship advice on "Extra" last month.

And he opened up to "Extra," saying the exes text message each other "every now and again," adding, "But we're trying to give each other our space." The relationship is over, but there are no hard feelings. "We both went on the show with the best of intentions. We did fall in love on the show, but things didn't work out. I wish her nothing but the best. She's a great person. I hope to see her do well. I don't regret anything with her."

The pro snowboarder is "taking things one day at a time." Jesse has been extremely open about the breakup, posting info on his MySpace page and on YouTube. "All the fans have been super supportive. I've gotten thousands of emails. Everybody basically has my back." Fresh on the market, Csincsak tells "Extra" what he is looking for in a girl. "I want a down-to-earth, honest outgoing girl that loves to be outside and snowboard."

Jesse would hop back into the world of reality TV to find the right girl, "If it was offered to me, I definitely would have to consider it for sure." He continued, "I'd want to put them [the girls] in my element... to be out in Colorado... doing the things I like to do... if I could meet a girl that is into doing all those things and is honest and outgoing, I think I could find true love again."

DeAnna dumped Jesse by saying, "I love you but I'm not in love with you." Should the exes remain friends?

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Better now than if they had actually gotten married. But she is such a fake to me. Unfortunate for him but hope he doesn’t let this experience get him bitter about women just learn from it. She was beautiful on the outside but how real was she on the inside. Was it real or like she just got hurt on the 1st one, so desperate to not look foolish on the one where she made the choice & she was going to have everyone see her as a winner. I don’t think either one the last 2 guys would have made it in long run as her true self would emerge eventually. I just don’t think she is personally really ready yet-she needs to figure her out 1st & b right on her own & just not so desperate to b with someone-anyone till she knows herself better.

missrocky
November 17, 2008

I think DeAnna should have gone with Jason on the show. I thought she was stupid to go with Jesse in the first place. Jason was more her type but I think she shyed away because he had a child and she couldnt deal with it even though she said she could.I think she is a fool and needs to get up with Jason then she will b happy.

Bob Swanson
November 15, 2008

Deanna is into her self….she wants to be a rising star which she will never be..in a few months or years..she will be all washed up and her figure will go to pot. jesse is a nice guy who got taken for a fool by deanna…jeez another angelina jolie in the making? i hope jesse finds the right girl…i think he has a bigger fan base than deanna….and deanna just loves herself and the spotlight. she is a whiny crybaby……she needs to love herself 1st….she must suffer from low self esteem….she sure used jesse. she is cruel and demeaning….karma for you deanna big time…sum 1 will come around and hurt u big time then u will know what u put jesse through. i m a fan of jesse all the way!!!!!!!

Anonymous
November 15, 2008

I am so sorry to see the true side of Deanna because Jesse is such a “real” guy, but she should have picked Jason in the first place, who is probably still sad about the whole thing. I think she was forcing herself to be “in love” with SOMEBODY, but if she was so broken up and in love with the previous bachelor who dumped her, she could not so quickly fall “in love” with someone else.

jeri
November 14, 2008

I wish Jesse would stop saying that he loves her. Jesse was not important enough to DeAnna to try and fix what ever their problems were. Why hasn’t DeAnna said anything? DeAnna’s sister-in-law posted a blog saying not to believe everything we see and hear, What does that mean? If she has something to say, she should just say it. And stop criticizing people for having an opinion. What I see is a girl who broke up with a guy, when it was time to spend the winter in Breck learning how to snowboard.

anonymous
November 14, 2008

i sure hope they don’t let Deanna return to the show that Jason is on…it has been done in the past but after her breaking Jason’s heart…let’s hope not ..but you never know…….

ann
November 14, 2008

None of us know what went on inside this relationship and maybe we should never know. However, for me Deanna revealed a piece of her character in the “World Magic Kingdom” video interview posted on the D&J website. In this interview she was rude, insulting and demeaning to Jesse.

Jesse was being kind, loving and attentive to her. He told the reporter that his Bachelorette experience led him to finding love with Pappas. On the other hand Deanna responded by telling to the reporter that Jesse was “just sucking up” to her. She explained that the most important part of the experience were her “millions” of fans. It was revolting to watch. It reminded me of Graham Bunn saying in a post show interview that he could never love a woman like Deanna. I thought he was being so mean. I realize now that I may have misunderstood who the mean one really was.

Anonymous
November 13, 2008

Of course none of us know what went on inside this relationship and perhaps we should never know. However, for me a piece of Deanna’s character was revealed in the “World Magic Kingdom” video interview with Joyce Chow posted on their D&J website. Deanna displayed rude,insulting and demmeaning behavior during this interview.

Jesse was being loving, kind and attentive. He told the reporter of his luck in finding & loving Pappas. She on the other hand told the reporter that he was just “sucking up” to her and the most important part of her Bachelorette experience were her “millions” of fans. It was revolting and reminded me of Graham Bunn’s remark that he could never love a woman like Deanna. I thought at the time that he was being so mean. I realize now that I may have misunderstood who the real mean one was.




Anonymous
November 13, 2008

Deanna was not willing for the relationship to work. During the Rose Ceremony she indicated that “it did not matter how many arguments they had”….. she would be with him forever.
Was that a publicity stunt? I will definitely look at her different now.

ann
November 13, 2008

Jesse, you are so genuine and sincere in your feelings for Deanna. It seems she is only thinking of herself. Take time to get thru this. I know you will find that special one.

Dottie
November 13, 2008

I agree with Beachgirl above “The whole concept of those shows is flawed”. Seems like these imaginary love affairs happen for reality TV purposes only. Very glad Ryan and Trista worked out however. The one bachelor didn’t choose Deanna…maybe that says something about her and she seems to have nothing in common with Jesse. Jesse needs to choose a real mountain girl that knows and enjoys the terrain of CO. Dirt

Anonymous
November 13, 2008

Deanna,
you need too came out from hiding and face the cameras…. We know you left Jesse for someone else!. I wonder who” does the name start with another J. the guy you should of picked in the first place….

Janet
November 13, 2008

What’s the most tragic about this break up, were the lies from Deanna… The words she said on national TV when asked when her wedding date was (AFTER SHE HAD BROKEN UP WITH JESSE) “May 9th, 2009,” I think just that destroyed any possible future in television for her. It just would have been so easy for her to tell the truth. She will learn that your words are so powerful…and the truth always sets one free. And just one untruthful word spoken to trusting listeners, can destroy you.

Tammy
November 12, 2008

I hope everything works out for the best for the two of them. I actually saw this show. I tuned in every week. It was very entertaining.

Iselda Garcia
November 12, 2008

The whole concept of those shows is flawed. None of the relationships work out in the end. Women make complete fools of themselves when they are on the show- “Falling” in love with a guy in a week—Deanna bad mouthing the bachlor that didn’t pick her and shouting to anyone that would listen that she had found “true love” - What joke-

Beach Girl
November 12, 2008

The whole concept of those shows is flawed. None of the relationships work out in the end. Women make complete fools of themselves when they are on the show- “Falling” in love with a guy in a week—Deanna bad mouthing the bachlor that didn’t pick her and shouting to anyone that would listen that she had found “true love” - What joke-

Beach Girl
November 12, 2008

WOW..I’m in shock. I really thought they would have made it. I wish them both luck!!

Kym
November 12, 2008

They “text message each other every now and then”, huh.
And they “need to give each other their space”?
If I were Jesse, I would perfer a very
wide open space after what she put him through.
Jesse. I hope someday that you’ll find that special someone who will fall head over heels in love with you no matter what the circumstances may be.

anonymous
November 12, 2008

I knew on that that DeAnna Pappas made a very wrong choice when she choosed Jesse. But thank God that she did not choose Jason. I could have been more hurt. Jason could have been a better husband ready to handle all the way.

roland
November 12, 2008

I think Jesse just needs to move on. Although very hard its the way it is easier to live life. He will find a nice girl who loves him for who he is.

RockerGal
November 12, 2008
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