Jesse Darling, It hurts so much to see your pain. Your love for her and the loss of that, which was done so tactlessly, will fade with time. Try not to go back because as she said she’s not in love and won’t be feeling anything realtively close to you. Now that the two of you are trying to settle into routine, work and live the life 98% of us do she feels there are two many differences. What does that tell you? She is not going to make in Hollywood and before you know it she will be bartending again. I used to think very highly of DeAnna but now that I realize she doesn’t have any idea of what she wants she falls hard in mine and the 198,234,765 other fans of now your alone.She needs to remember she won that award because of you. I’m sorry but I lost so much respect for her in how she handled this. It really was about as cold as cold can be. I never liked her family either (Minus grandma)and I see they took their myspace faces right off your website. This all says a lot about the quality people they are. They are also filling her head with crap that is going to leave her devasted. Please just move on and open your heart to all the beautiful women you will meet in Breck this winter.

Jesse before you have another “cry face” you should give your dignity a check because I think she took it along with your balls….she’s not the only one out there.

Jesse before you say another word give your dignity a check….because i think she took it along with your balls

I wasn’t a huge fan of Jessie on the show. I wanted Jason to win, big time. I enjoyed her on the season, and thought she was adorable. After having watched her on the after part of the show though, she didn’t seem like herself. When she was talking to Jason she seemed lke a heartless b*t*h, and when she was with Jesse after the show, she seemed into herself. This makes me sad for him, and for the fact that she is losing herself. Her head is getting too big for her own good. She’s pretty, but pretty gets ugly real fast when you lose a genuine personality. Jesse deserves better, by miles.

I really think the romance between Jesse and DeAnna is very special..but after a period of time of getting to know each other better, DeAnna realizes her love with Jesse is not exciting anymore. I am sorry for Jesse because he’s a great guy, very real, and down to earth. Unfortunately, DeAnna realizes now that he’s not the one she wants to marry. I am not surprised by her decision. Good luck to Jess, and I hope you will definitely find someone that will love you just the way you are.

While Jesse was on the show, I never liked him, but when I think back to it he was always a good person and he deserves better than DeAnna. She’s just turning to the person she hates, a female version of Brad Womack!

Wow. That is really bad. I was never a big fan of Jesse’s while the show was on, but he can definetely do better than her. He really just needs to forget about her and move on. All those guys are no doubt so much better off without her.

What an amazing person DeAnna just pushed away. You were my favorite from the beginning of the show and I cried tears of joy when she chose you. I am so sorry for your pain and can’t tell you how blessed someone will be some day to have you. That person will be so happy DeAnna let you go. Hang in there Jesse..your soulmate is still out there :)

Jesse, I am sorry to hear that she broke up with you, this are hard times, probably one of the most painful experiences you will ever have.
I am sorry,take heart Jesse unfortunately this is something you must go trhough when you have a broken heart, you cannot skip this part, but I promise you it will get better, but for now you need time away from her until it does not hurt anymore and one day it won’t.
I wish you calm and peace, try not to torture yourself about what you did wrong because it is not about you is about her. But have a good cry go ahead and let it go…. One day you will find someone who really wants to be with you. Surround yourself with friends and love ones allow them to care and nourish you, take heart Jesse hang in there.
love
Rosie.

Yo I have definitely been where you are, only not so grand a scale. The times ahead will be very rough, Extra did a great job showing that you are indeed human, and sensitive. This is more real than the show to be honest.

Hit those slopes and pour all your hurt into your passion. Never forget you, as being let go does make you hate that, more than you can imagine. “What did I do wrong?” etc…

Best wishes, Jerry was poignant with this, thank god it wasn’t made “sleazy.”

i think she’s a fake… she will not be successful in any relationship if all she will do is play around… jesse, you gotta move on, she’s not worth crying for… do not shed any tears because one day you will just laugh at what you’re doing because she is not worth a tear….

jesse you can do so much better!!! she does not deserve you ..you are too sweet for her..i saw it from the beginning . i will gladly date you

Looking forward to seeing more of you on the next Bachelor!!! Sorry it didn’t work out but best of luck to you!

DeAnna is so into herself. she just wanted to be in the spotlight. see how she would fake it as an adorable, sweet caring person in front of cameras in all her interviews. Jesse should never in million years take her back even if she begs. Sorry that Jesse had to be the victim.
DeAnna the great player!

wow I am shocked I thought she really Loved you how 2 faced she is and not to touch you unless it was on camera thats bullshit and definitely not love on her part probably just used the show for other reasons and thats not right and I sure hope you get over her fast and find true Happiness and Love with someone who deserves it and really wants you for you not just for publicity reasons it stinks being dumped

Never like DeAnna from the beginning. I am glad that Jason was not picked at the final show. I wish Jesse the best, and whoever will marry DeAnna one day will be the most foolish person.

Jesse:
My heart goes out to you. Who knows what she is looking for. I do believe she is looking at the Hollywood scene. Please accept the experience and move on with your life. I know there is a special person out there for you. Right now snowboarding and skiing is in season. Get into what you love and let time heal your feelings. I do think you made an attractive couple and can’t believe she did this to you. God bless you and may you go on to bigger and better things.
Dottie

DeAnna is a joke, her actions will catch up with her. Evidently Brad seen the true side of DeAnna before the rest of us did and that is why he did what he did at the end of the show. It all makes sense now! She can’t hide from her mistakes now though. Honestly does she really think she will be a celebrity??? If that statement is actually true, Ha~ha, what an idiot she is!
Jesse the world has seen and knows what a great & sincere guy you are, don’t worry about anything. Just wait and see, it won’t be long before you will be swamped with calls from a lot better women than DeAnna. It will happen for you…
God Bless.

Man DeAnna is a B**** for what she did… She just wanted the publicity….

Deanna is too fat for hollywood. Jesse, she wont make it there and you deserve someone much better and someone who loves you off the camera. Good luck to you Jesse.