She is a fool in a lot of ways, but she is obviously fake; “obviously.” Sorry you didn’t see that, but that’s what happens sometimes. You are obviously a true blue guy and that perfect girl for you will come along. You’re hurting right now and have a lot of questions I’m sure, but you’ll work through it and it will get better. She is obviously very self centered. Why would she tell other people she was leaving you before she even told you? She didn’t have her heart in it from the beginning I don’t think. Sorry you were sucked in by all the hype. God Bless You - You will have a woman in your life that is your soul mate, believe that (and it’s not DeAnna). Best wishes - M

I always knew from the beginning that Wormack made the Right decision On Deanna! I guess that the public just couldn’t see through her- like Wormack could! No wander that Brad is where he is today in this world as a success-full business man! Peaches

It all makes sense now… I could never figure out you two together. As nice as she may be, she carries the persona of someone who runs with the phony crowd… materialistic and showoff crowd. Like you said, she was mainly affectionate on camera. That says it all! Jesse, you seem like a very down to earth guy. You have a career doing something you love. There’s a beautiful girl out there for you who probably has some real fire in her, true beauty and honesty. Deanna lost out.

I knew from the beginning that Wormack was Right on his decision with Deanna! I guess that the public just couldn’t See through her - like Wormack could! Know wander he is where he is in this world! A successfull business man!

Lynn (see below) said it best. WE LOVE YOU JESSE!!!!!!!

Jesse, she is not real. I could see this through out the show. She is out only for her self and shes a very mixed up women. It seems like a great loss now but, in time you will see the reality. You are young, nice looking and fun loving. Don’t beat your self up over this one, shes not worth it. I’m sure you did nothing wrong ! I believe you can do much better ! God has the perfect mate for you. Prayer is powerful !! I know he will provide in his perfect time.

Jesse, My heart breaks for you. DeAnna, do the right thing and prove you are half the woman you want us to believe. Their is only one charity that ring should be donated too. JSAK is what Jesse is made of and you wouldn’t have it to donate without him. I’m sorry to both of you.

I am sorry but i have not had two many com trying to get passwords worked out, my computer has been mixed up everything is a mess I would really like to have my last comment sent i have followed Jesse from the beginning and have the best intentions it would be the last one I know Jesse reads our comments thank you

jesse you poor dear=====we all love you
i feel you are one of my kids. we have all saw you blossom into a man head over heels in love and there are risks that go along with it. when your feeling down just read some of the comments we are the ones that really love you and pray for you especially after what has happened. you will fall in love again, the women will be lining up,take it ONE DAY AT A time GOD BLESS
cobbie

Oh Jessie: So sorry to see you in so much pain, we the viewer’s are behind you 100%. I really felt that you two belong together. There are other woman out there who will help you with your pain. Like there “Is more fish in the sea and you don’t deserve to be treated that way.”

Jesse, In time you will realize that you were the winner here. She wasn’t worth it on Bachelor 11 or on the Bachelorette.

Jesse, I’m very sorry for your breakup and wish you all the best. Just know that The Babes are thinking of you.

Dear Jesse, I am a woman 68 years old and have two grown sons who are 46 and 43. My eldest was married for 17 years and has one daughter. He was devastated when their marriage broke up. They had been miserable together for years. My ex daughter-in-law is a good person, but they were not good together after the first couple of years, but stayed in the marriage because of their daughter. My son didn’t want to ever get married again, but I knew he would because he is the marrying kind and is a good husband and dad. I encouraged him to go back to church and he did and joined a divorce discovery class which helped him tremendously. He then began going to a singles class at church and met a lovely and wonderful Christian woman. They dated and finally married a year and a half later and they are truly soul mates. She knows how to be a helpmate and a good wife in all aspects and they are so happy together. And, I am so grateful to have her in our family. Parents want their children to be happy and it was obvious how much your parents love you. I’m sure they are hurting for you too as I did when my son was going through his difficult time. My heart ached for him.

Please don’t think you did anything wrong. You didn’t. From what you showed us all who watched The Bachelorette, women of all ages fell in love with you because of your character and goodness. It shines through. Deanna may be a very nice girl, but it seems as if she was only in it for the fame. She always seemed to care more about what she wanted than what the other person wanted during the show, but then I thought maybe there was more to her than I originally thought because she had the good sense to choose you.

However, it seems as if I was right in the beginning. With someone like Deanna, my opinion is that she will never find lasting and real happiness because people like Deana are in love with love and she doesn’t have a clue how to give or think of another person before herself. When you truly love someone, it’s the giving that makes a relationship work and survive a lifetime. But, you need two givers, or it won’t work. I know you are hurting right now, but when you heal, I hope you will allow someone else to love you who is deserving of all you have to give. In the meantime if you are affiliated with a church, or not, you may want to search some out to see if they have recovery classes for the kind of support you are needing right now. It helps to know others who have gone through similar situations. I wish you the very best and you WILL find your soul mate. You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you, but you are also very smart and wise beyond your years and have a lot to give to the right person, so you just hang in there and have faith that it will be worth the wait. The important thing is that you are evenly yoked and want the same things and that God is the center of your relationship. If He is then you will have a wonderful loving life. I wish you the very best. You deserve it. Again, you did nothing wrong. It is something missing in Deanna, not you. And she is the loser for not being wise enough to value what she had in you. It is her loss, not yours.

Dear Jesse, I am a woman 68 years old and have two grown sons who are 46 and 43. My eldest was married for 17 years and has one daughter. He was devastated when their marriage broke up. They had been miserable together for years. My ex daughter-in-law is a good person, but they were not good together after the first couple of years, but stayed in the marriage because of their daughter. My son didn’t want to ever get married again, but I knew he would because he is the marrying kind and is a good husband and dad. I encouraged him to go back to church and he did and joined a divorce discovery class which helped him tremendously. He then began going to a singles class at church and met a lovely and wonderful Christian woman. They dated and finally married a year and a half later and they are truly soul mates. She knows how to be a helpmate and a good wife in all aspects and they are so happy together. And, I am so grateful to have her in our family. Parents want their children to be happy and it was obvious how much your parents love you. I’m sure they are hurting for you too as I did when my son was going through his difficult time. My heart ached for him.

Please don’t think you did anything wrong. You didn’t. From what you showed us all who watched The Bachelorette, women of all ages fell in love with you because of your character and goodness. It shines through. Deanna may be a very nice girl, but it seems as if she was only in it for the fame. She always seemed to care more about what she wanted than what the other person wanted during the show, but then I thought maybe there was more to her than I originally thought because she had the good sense to choose you.

However, it seems as if I was right in the beginning. With someone like Deanna, my opinion is that she will never find lasting and real happiness because people like Deana are in love with love and she doesn’t have a clue how to give or think of another person before herself. When you truly love someone, it’s the giving that makes a relationship work and survive a lifetime. But, you need two givers, or it won’t work. I know you are hurting right now, but when you heal, I hope you will allow someone else to love you who is deserving of all you have to give. In the meantime if you are affiliated with a church, or not, you may want to search some out to see if they have recovery classes for the kind of support you are needing right not. It helps to know others who have gone through similar situations. I wish you the very best and you WILL find your soul mate. You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you, but you are also very smart and wise beyond your years and have a lot to give to the right person, so you just hang in there and have faith that it will be worth the wait. The important thing is that you are evenly yoked and want the same things and that God is the center of your relationship. If He is then you will have a wonderful loving life. I wish you the very best. You deserve it. Again, you did nothing wrong. It is something missing in Deanna, not you. And she is the loser for not being wise enough to value what she had in you. It is her loss, not yours.

shocked? no. i have watched every bachelor/bachelorette show and everytime i watch it i hope there will be a trista and ryan ending. lets hope jason will pick the right girl!!!

Wow, I can’t believe DeAnna is soo ruthless! She is definitely using the show for publicity. I feel sad for Jesse and Jesse you deserve better! DON’T TAKE HER BACK! I can’t believe you would forgive her. She said the SAME thing to Jason with the “I love you, but I’m not in love with you.” Clearly, she is just using you. WAKE UP JESSE!

Like DeAnna said, “God has a plan for everyone.” He obviously did not plan her for you, Jesse.
I think you are the best, and wish you luck with the next woman.

I hope Jesse takes all the time he needs to heal his wounds. Heartbreak is never easy. I have all the compassion for him, but I hope he will eventually use this experience to learn, to grow and love wiser next time.

Then I hope he starts to ask himself some honest questions. How did he think that she wasn’t going to eventually do to him what she did to Jason and Jeremy - lead them on and break their hearts? It amazes me when people only use their emotions instead of their intelligence and instincts. Always observe how the other person treat other people in the past and present. That’s how they’ll eventually treat you.

Please, Jesse, gather what’s left of your dignity, stop talking in public about how you would debase yourself further by taking someone back who broke up w/ you at an airport curb as you were picking her up, not even willing to put in the effort to make your relationship work, and only was affectionate w/ you on camera. Any red flags there??? That’s just shock speaking. I promise you if you give her a complete freeze out, don’t speak to her at all, the chemicals in your brain will eventually sort themselves out and you will be soooooo glad that she did you this huge favor. Then you can truly start to learn and grow by asking yourself why did you have so little regard for yourself that you allow yourself to love someone who was so clearly not deserving of it. Please know this is not meant to be unkind, just felt so bad for you and don’t want you to hurt yourself further, been there and done that and know better now. You will grow, love smarter and better next time and will eventually see what a great opportunity this was to learn. This will be a lesson to yourself and others to screen people you give your heart to better - make sure your head screens the person BEFORE you give your heart away.

Jesse, My heart goes out to you. I know the pain you must be feeling right now. The same thing happened to me last year. My ex-fiance even said the same thing, “I love you, but I am not in love with you.” The only difference is that he left me for another woman. One thing is that the ordeal has helped me to become a even better person. Also, I am a lot happier now! I learned a lot during the healing, grieving process. I only wish the same for you! Please, don’t blame yourself. You did nothing wrong. You are going to fine. In the meantime, here is a virtual (((Hug))) for you!

Cheer up Jesse she is not the right woman for you if she does this after all this time. One day you will find the right one and wonder what you ever saw in Deanna and be more happy than you would ever have been with her