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November 3, 2008

DeAnna & Jesse: 'Bachelorette' Romance Over!

The love story is over for "Bachelorette" DeAnna Pappas and Jesse Csincsak -- and the heartbroken pro-snowboarder spills to "Extra" about the split.

Jesse reveals how Pappas ended things, saying, "We took time apart... She came back to Colorado and told me, 'I love you, but I'm not in love with you.' ...I picked her up from the airport and she told me while I was getting her bags."

Csincsak also admits that he was shocked and surprised that DeAnna released a statement about their broken engagement. "She told some of our business associates today first... I didn't know this had been released today," confesses Jesse. "We had agreed after she broke up with me... that we would put together a statement and have it released."

Despite Pappas calling it quits, Jesse admits that he's still in love with the brunette beauty. "I love that woman. She is an amazing person. I am willing to work through it. I love her... I love the way she made me feel. She made me feel like no other." When asked if he'll fight for her and the relationship, he said, "I don't want to fight for a lost cause. I just want her to be happy whether it's with or without me."

DeAnna told her fiancé that she wanted to move to Los Angeles -- and was not willing to go to counseling with him. Jesse explains, "DeAnna said, 'I'm not willing to try anymore.' She had a different idea. I can't argue with her feelings... She's the only one who knows how she feels." The snowboarder now wonders if their relationship was based on publicity, telling "Extra," "the only time she was touchy feely with me was around the cameras."

When asked if he would like to send a message to DeAnna via "Extra," Jesse tearfully said, "I guess I would say I'm sorry for whatever I did to make you not want to be with me."

Jesse and DeAnna are over -- and Csincsak admits that he's jealous of Jason Mesnick, who is looking for love as the next "Bachelor." "I really envy Jason's position right now... It's an amazing show... You could go and fall in love. I would love the opportunity to fall in love again."


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Jesse, I’m so sorry for the hurt you are feeling. You are a wonderful man. I know there is a woman out there that will love you the way you deserve to be loved. Stay true to yourself, don’t change a thing. Deanna didn’t deserve you anyways.


- Jody in Kansas
Posted 11/04/08 08:00 AM
 

JESSE IS A VERY GOOD PERSON AND DEANNA DID THIS TO YOU YOU DEANNA PUT JESSE THROUGH A LOT ANS I WATCHED EVERYTHING WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO HIM YOU ARE A LITTLE GIRL WHO NEVER GREW UP AND YOU ARE A HOOR GO BACK HOME TO MOMMY AND LET HER CHANGE YOUR DIAPERS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT READY 4 THE REAL WORLD YET.YOU HAD A VERY GOOD MAN JESSE AND YOU LET HIM GO—- BIG MISTAKE—- VERY BIG MISTAKE ——HUGE MISTAKE YOUR LOSE HONEY YOU WILL NEVER FIND A MAN AS GOOD AS JESSE YOU BETTER THINK OF WHAT YOU ARE DOING ( GARY )


- gary rodgers
Posted 11/04/08 07:46 AM
 

Hey, all I can say is that Deanna is an idiot and that she just gave me my chance to meet Jesse- who seems to be, in my eyes, the perfect guy. I always thought she seemed fake, and I was right. She doesnt deserve you Jesse!


- Audrey
Posted 11/04/08 07:43 AM
 

Simply put, whether you believe it or not, we could all see it, and you’re too good for her.


- Celina
Posted 11/04/08 07:43 AM
 

I’m so sorry and can definitely relate to the pain you are feeling. I, myself, am going through a breakup of my own. I often wonder of others who are hurting when I am. I know everyone hates to hear it, but time does heal all wounds. The next woman who you fall in love with will be so lucky and you’ll appreciate her so much more because she’ll be the right one for you! If DeAnna was only affectionate when cameras were around, then that speaks volumes. You seem like an awesome guy and I only wish I could meet someone like you. You’re in my thoughts!


- Stacie
Posted 11/04/08 07:36 AM
 

deanna put jesse through a lot and i watched all of it.what deanna put jesse through and now she did this to jesse is not fair.deanna is nothing more that a play girl,a little girl who never grew up anr a hoor jesse is a very good person and she knows it.she is afraid of starting a family with jesse because she does not know what she wants in life.go back home little deanna and let your mommy change your diapers because you are not ready for the real world yet. (GARY )


- gary rodgers
Posted 11/04/08 07:31 AM
 

Go Out and Get Your Own TV Show like Flava Flav….You Will Kill It Son


- Jared
Posted 11/04/08 07:26 AM
 

I’m so sorry and can definitely relate to the pain you are feeling. I, myself, am going through a breakup of my own. I often wonder of others who are hurting when I am. I know everyone hates to hear it, but time does heal all wounds. The next woman who you fall in love with will be so lucky and you’ll appreciate her so much more because she’ll be the right one for you! If DeAnna was only affectionate when cameras were around, then that speaks volumes. You seem like an awesome guy and I only wish I could meet someone like you. You’re in my thoughts!


- Stacie
Posted 11/04/08 07:25 AM
 

On the outside we can see you are a man with integrity. It was, ultimately, about show for her. Move forward with your character in place.


- Anonymous
Posted 11/04/08 07:13 AM
 

This woman is a nutcase! She is the biggest fake of them all. Jesse you deserve better. Get over her!


- Kathy
Posted 11/04/08 07:07 AM
 

This can not be a surprise to him. She is so fake its disgusting. She’ll probably make a ton of money off it, but hopefully she gets the hurt she deserves after inflicting it on this poor dude.

Deanna=pig.


- JPS
Posted 11/04/08 07:04 AM
 

Jesse and Deanna - almost like oil and water. They are way different. Only one couple has married and stayed together. What is with all these people??? Don’t worry, Jesse, they’re are plenty of eligible, intelligent women out there who would grab you in a minute!!


- arlee
Posted 11/04/08 06:53 AM
 

DeAnna BLOWS! Sorry Jessie, you didn’t deserve this and America knows it! We all fell in love with you. Keep your chin up sweetie.


- Ginger
Posted 11/04/08 06:51 AM
 

Let’s see,she talked a good game about being hurt,and then she turn’s around and ripe’s the guy’s heart out of his chest,I know I’ve been there…I hope that thing’s will work out for you Jesse nobody like’s being hurt like that…All the Best…


- John
Posted 11/04/08 06:37 AM
 


She was cheating….ask her about her hometown friend that shes been talking to!


- Anonymous
Posted 11/04/08 06:03 AM
 

Come on, we all saw this coming. Jesse seemed a free spirit and Deanna was all into the looks, the press, and she seems to crave structure. After he heals, Jesse should go on the bachelor and Deanna perhaps can do a Dr. Phil show to help her figure out and define exactly what she’s looking for. To me it was quite obvious she was confused during the entire show and she seemed to talk herself into picking Jesse. I don’t think her match was on that show.


- Dee
Posted 11/04/08 06:01 AM
 

It’s ironic how this all went down, I seem to remember her being on the other end of bad news. Except Brad Womack had the guts to say it to her on national tv. He was made out to look like such a creep for leading her on, but he knew in his heart he could not commit. Unfortunately, I can not say the same for her. I wonder how she would feel if this was on live tv with everyone judging and questioning her decision.

Best of luck to you in the future, love usually happens when your not looking.

tink


- TINK
Posted 11/04/08 05:56 AM
 

Jesse, I am so in shock about this. I really thought DeAnna found a true blue great guy - saw through all the phoney baloney and picked a genuine person. I am really disgusted by her right now. Jesse, you are sweet man and a hottie with heart……you will find the one.


- sandywack
Posted 11/04/08 05:55 AM
 

Jesse, i am sorry for your pain, but your better off finding out now, then investing long term. DeAnna doesn’t seem like a bad girl HOWEVER, she does seem like she has the perfect answer for everything. In addition, that she plays up to the cameras alot. Hon, your out there in the single world again, BUT, tons of ladies know your face and you will find your true half. Dont let this close the door to your future. DeAnna wasn’t your future. She is sincerely not a completely sincere person. You want someone to be IN love with you, not love you jsut as a buddy. your cute, you have spunk energy life and ethics, and you will find the right person to hang with and share the same moral ethics and heart with. Stay in the game, you will be fine!


- Rebeca
Posted 11/04/08 05:53 AM
 

Oh Jesse, I feel for you. She took you for a ride and toyed with your heart. You deserve so much better. You never acted like anyone other than yourself. I guess she just wanted all the attention from the media. After what happened to her before you would think she would be a lot more concerned for your feelings. I still hope that you two can work this out. I hope you can find real love. I’m sure there are plenty of girls that would be thrilled to be with you !!! Good Luck


- Skylar Moon
Posted 11/04/08 05:44 AM

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