Jesse,

I was not rooting for you to win Deannas heart in the beginning, but as time grew on, I truly thought maybe she had made the right choice. By the time the show ended and the more of her I watched, I realized she was just all about the fame and popularity she was getting from all of this exposure. From the moment Brad dumped her to her being on Ellen and sobbing about it, then Ellen bringing her back to announce that she was the new Bachelorette, all she was concerned with was herself. She is a very selfish, spoiled little Princess who would never have made you happy anyways. Jesse, you deserve so much better and believe me….You wil find it when you least expect it! Good luck Jesse, and please know that there are millions of people out here feeling the pain with you! Along with some disgust!

Jesse and DeAnna—-
To DeAnna. . I think that you got wrapped up in the idea of “being in love”. When you find that person you’ll know it. You don’t have to fake anything or wish that it would happen.
To Jesse. . Someone is out there for you. Don’t give up..she just might be around the next corner.

Jesse-

I was really happy for both of you when you announced your engagement. Your relationship seemed to be what both of you wanted and I could tell that your feelings for Deanna were real. Every guy who is married or has proposed to their perfect girl has been sick with excitement, nervousness and all those wonderful feelings you have in the pit of your stomach when you are ready to commit your life and soul to someone.
For a guy-this is no small thing.

I can tell that you are hurting real bad bro and that youtube video was tough to watch, so my thoughts and prayers go out to you. I haven’t heard Deanna’s side of the story and its not my relationship, so I can’t comment about who is right or wrong. My only hope is that the two of you can work through this if your relationship is meant to be and if not that you are both able to move on and you find the person that is right for you without more pain being inflicted.

Just know that you have people out there in the world you may not know who admire & respect you and that you are not alone.

Good luck and cheers.

The Owl.

Better late than never…She may regret it or may not. Both need to move on and find someone who fits them.

Deanna, there is nothing more annoying than to sympathize with a person when she(or him)has been wronged (as with you in the 2007 “Bachelor”) and then see that same person doing wrong to others. What kind of BS is that “I love you but I am not in love with you”? You mean we all tuned to see you pick “the one” and now it turns out that you “though” he was, but he isn’t? You are coming across as someone who doesn’t know what she wants and should not be allowed on reality shows again, cause now people think you are a fake.

Stop trying to be “validated” by a man. Take some university course to improve your self steem and leave those men alone. God knows Real State is on the ground right now and you could use this time to start a backup career.
And not on tv, please. We’ve seen enough!!!!

I only hope this break up is not about the guy who didn’t pick up in 2007 (as in maybe calling you when he saw you with Jesse), cause in that case, you both are just alike, and will always feel the grass is greener on the other side.

Take the example from Trista, the Bachelorette who it is still married now with a kid. Now THAT was worth watching!!

Jesse——I know you are hurting, but all things happen for a reason. You deserve better. Deanna is a spoiled brat who is only out for the fame. She hasn’t grown up yet. If she truly loved you she would have wanted to spend every moment with you away from all the glitz! She is definetly a ME person. It takes two people to make a relationship. Love will come for you at a moment when you aren’t expecting it. Deanna seemed to show you affection only when the cameras were around. I didn’t believe her at the end of the show——it was all for the camera. Hang in there Jesse. there IS love out there for you Don’t just settle for anything……you deserve much more….make it about YOU!!!

Donna

Jessie,
I know it hurts right now, but you will find that special woman. When that day comes you can look back upon this and be happy. Your worlds were just too different to work. You deserve so much more than a “ME” person. You’ll find that special one that makes up “WE”.

I was rooting for you from the beginning and still am! Some people don’t know what they have until it is gone, and she had one of the BEST! Try the internet! *wink* I met my husband there and it IS true love!

I am really sorry to hear about the breakup! You seem like an AMAZING guy with all the great qualities a girl is looking for! Your snow bunny is waiting in Oregon !! =)

Deanna was a fake from the very beginning. Am I the only one who saw that? Fake, Fake, Fake, the accent
is fake. I wouldn’t have picked Jesse.
What a Stupid Reality show? People grow up!

Jesse, Sorry to hear about the breakup. I thought you guys were great together. It seems that Deanna does not know what she really wants. You will find someone that really loves you for you. I think you are amazing. Good Luck

She was lucky to have you, Jesse. She doesn’t know what she wants…maybe she’s just an attention seeker/drama queen. Maybe she’s looking to “get famous”? Whatever it is, don’t sweat it - girls will be lined up to be with you. You’re the real deal. It’s hard at first, but you’ll be great. Hang in there!!

I forgot to mention, don’t be jealous of Jason….you have so many qualities that women look for in a guy, you will find your Princess someday :)
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Both of these people are too young and self absorbed.
She is a lot into fashion and publicity. He cares about his looks and fun time. Look at their photos - almost all perfect as if done by professionals. I didn’t see even one pic where he looks at her - they both work for the cameras.
No one will know the true story why they broke up. Maybe he smokes pot like a lot of snowboarders do and she is not cool with it. You never know! There could be a million things. Maybe he snores too much! :)
It felt almost like a publicity stunt: get engaged, participate in a whole bunch of events and photo-ops then call it quits. They’ve been travelling most of their time together, they haven’t settled and tried normal life like everybody else.
That’s the problem with famous couples - too many stars in a relationship.
So everyone feels for this guy right now because he’s got dumped. And the first thing he does, big shock, is to announce his intent to be a bachelor candidate. What a conveyor belt! There’s not much reality in reality shows :) but it sure looks good on TV.

Jesse, you are an amazing man and she made a huge mistake! There are plenty of beautiful caring women out there that would snag you up in a second. Be strong and you will get through this.
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My heart goes out to Jesse. I think he is a great guy and you can tell he is really hurting. I hope he finds someone special who will truly love and care for him. It sounds like DeAnna was in it for the publicity and stardom. I wish him all the best. I hope to see more of him in the future. Maybe he can be on the next Bachelor show. Either way I think he is adorable and sincere.

Jesse,
You will find true love!!
Things happen for reasons we do not know at this time.
But I do know love will come your way, and it will be TRUE LOVE…
Good luck
MAW

I’m sure most of us are hurting with you,
but I’m not surprised this happened. You seemed to good for her. You’ve got a lot of fans out here. Your young,cute,sweet & have a successful business…..ok girls go get him :-)

Jesse,
I think its always been about the camera for her.
Its a shame that unfortunately for you, it seems that vanity is more important to her at this point? Now I do not know her or you - I only know what the cameras and media portray - and of course understand that everything is well edited - so I will say this - I am willing to believe YOU in saying that she is an amazing girl. My dissappointment is more in the fact that it seems our beloved reality romances are not solid when we want to believe so much that they will last forever …I dont think I will be tuning in anymore . . and stick to reality as i know it - which would be what i see everyday with my own eyes - not what the media shows us on TV. I am sorry for the both of you and hope for you both - happiness again.

I’m sorry Jesse. Your love is out there and you’ll find her. My thoughts are with you. Take care.