Well, here’s my theory. I think she did the Bachlorette show just to get herself back into the public eye again. I don’t believe she ever did it in an effort to find “true love”; I think she probably has aspirations of being a supermodel and/or an actress, and doing the show was just a way to get free exposure and publicity.

I don’t think she ever went into this thing with the goal of choosing a soul mate. It was obvious that the guy with the little boy was the right one for her, but she didn’t choose him … probably because she knew in her heart she wasn’t going to marry any of those guys, and didn’t want to hurt that guy’s little boy. So she chose the guy she was least compatible with … the guy she felt would be hurt the least by her selfish decision.

It will be interesting to see if she tries to break into acting, now that she has stated to Jesse that she wants to relocate to L.A. Jesse is a sweet guy, but I knew from the beginning that he didn’t have the maturity or the $$$ to keep her happy. He’s better off without her; she is one dishonest, manipulative woman, IMO.

Jesse. I am sorry that your engagement to DeAnna has ended so suddenly.
I hope that someday you will find that “special lady” who you will “spend forever with” and always know deep down in your heart that she will love, cherish and above all respect you for all that you are.
The very best of luck to you.

I am really not surprised. I saw DeAnna in the season with Brad and I honestly was rooting for Jenni to be chosen. I saw DeAnna as a RUDE self-centerred woman who was VERY childish. She and her friend (forgot her name) were so bratty to all the other girls. And the last “night” that they had to tell Brad how they felt DeAnna seemed so fake. All she could do was bat her eyes and stumble over her words and she looked like she was so struggling to produce the tears. It just seemed so fake. Jenni, however was AWESOME and genuine. And on this season I saw, once again, a very STRONG DeAnna. Some of the guys were turned on by it, but let me tell you no one wants to have to keep fighting to please the one they’re in love with. And I actually saw a natural connection with Graham and was rooting for her to choose him, but she was so stubborn that she let him go. I honestly was surprised when she chose Jesse and don’t know how she got to that choice. But I could definitely see how she could be hard to please and hard to be loved by because of it. I love Jesse as a person though and think he’s so genuine… and your parents were the ideal parents that any girl would love to have as in-laws so get a great girl who’ll appreciate both you and them.

I am honestly not totally surprised. I watched Deanna fight for Brad, and to be honest I wanted him to pick Jenny because DeAnna was always so rude and just obnoxious. She was self obsorbed and she seemed fake to me even at that time. When she told Brad how she felt on the “last moments” she had with him. She kept using the word “like” and she batted her eyes a lot and hardly looked him in the eye. I could tell she was uncomfortable and made me wonder how stable she was even then. Then I say DeAnna with Graham, and it was natural as far as connection goes, but she was still SOOOOO stubborn and hard to please that she closed herself off to what I think could’ve been something great. And I was so surprised that she chose Jesse. Though I really like Jesse as a person and LOVED his parents, I just didn’t see it. And I could see how pleasing her would be a struggle.

Terrible way to have told you this in an airport. I am so disappointed in her as a person, she has no compassion!! She slammed Brad for the very same reason, all she kept saying is at what point did you know, why did you lead me on……she led you and your heart for months now. She seriously needs to self reflect and also needs therapy. I know you love her, but if you ever had the opportunity to take her back, I would not!! You will find true love again, you are in a great position in life, and you look like a true gem. Deanna however, is not in a good place. Take care Jesse, and I wish you all the best, you are AWESOME!!!

Deanna your 15 minutes of fame is over! America will end up hating you, just like they did Jen Sheft. Jesse will however come out of this looking good and his career will progress while you sit in the middle of Georgia! Good luck to Jesse and good bye Deanna!

DeAnna’s mother was diagnosed with cancer when DeAnna was 2 or 3 she said. Her parents divorced when she was 6. (What kind of man leaves his cancer-sticken wife and 3 young children?) Her mother died when she was 12 and she went to live with her father. These life-changing events must have left a huge void in her psyche. As an adult, she sought to filld that hole with a fantastic man like Jesse and then got caught up in the buzz and hype of Hollywood and decided to add that to the void to see if the soul-searing pain would go away. It won’t. Jesse, on the other hand, was surrounded by a set of devoted parents who valued each other and their son. Jesse has an emotionally healthy outlook on life, love, and friendship. No doubt DeAnna will realize her mistake within two months and then? …anyone’s guess.

There are terrific opportunities waiting for you when you follow your heart and stay focused on the things that give you the most pleasure in life. Spread sunshine wherever you go, regardless of the circumstances you are in.
Life is a journey!
Roll down the window and enjoy the breeze!!the pleasure of love is in the loving.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths that we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.- George Carlin

I just shake my head. What a MESSED UP World. I thought you 2 seemed real, which is so hard to believe in a tv show like that! I’m sad for Jesse - and Dee had me fooled!

Jessie,
Do not give DeAnna a second chance.
She is all about drama.
Look what she did to the other guys on the show.
Lead them on to believe that they were the ones and then broke their hearts also.
She is not good enough for you.
You have real values and are real as a person. It’s all from your heart and she isn’t.
I did not like her at all from the start.
I did not think that anyone could satisfy her.
She was so fake at Trista and Ryan’s place.
Playing like she was all goofy and in love. I could see right through it.
Never once thought that she would stay with you.
Maybe Chris will have you on the next Bachelor after this one.
There is someone out there for everyone.
Sometimes the wait is just longer.
I wrote a poem about it called “Searching for Love”
Searching for love
I’m searching for love.
Is it searching for me?
It’s been so long.
Is it meant to be?
I want to love so bad and to let it set me free.
Free from these lonely days and nights,
the tears, the pain.
Just to be alright.
Just to love again.
Bring love to me.
I’m searching for love.
Is it searching for me?
The sun will rise.
The moon will glow.
There goes another day.
Some seem so slow.
I want that love, that high.
That feeling where you know.
From the heart deep inside.
Someone to love me and not judge from the past.
One with another, a love that will grow.
A love that will last.
I’m searching for love.
Is it searching for me?
How long will I search for love?
How long can it be?
I want to love so bad and to let it set me free.
I’ll keep searching for love until it finds me.

So sorry that happened to you, Jessie. That video broke my heart. She should have known better. WTH.

I would think that it would be very hard to build a “real” relationship from either The Bachelor or The Bachelorette series. It is no surprise that only one relationship has gone the distance…. Trista and Ryan. Jesse… Don’t be jealous of Jason, honestly, he is probably setting himself or someone else up for the exact same heartbreak again. A tv show is just not the way to meet a life partner. Both DeAnna and Jesse need to meet someone in the good ‘ole fashion way…. take the time to get to know someone and build a “real” relationship. Take care and heal… love will come when you are both ready for it.

DeAnna was not good enough for Jesse. She was over-dramatic, and looking for a “Princess” life, not reality and true love. Jesse is way better off without her!

This was so sad!

I really originally liked her, but this is too much!!! Jesse is a great guy!

I feel so bad for Jesse, and I hope this doesn’t “ruin” him for good girls out there…maybe it was just a compatibility issue and I hope she didn’t get rid of a good man just to go all “Hollywood”…she sure won’t find a better one there!

I have never liked DeAnna and this makes me not like her more.
Jesse is so better off without her…she looked so fake in the cameras.

Jesse will find true love, as for DeAnna she will try to find any another reality show to get in…big deal she won an award!

I have never liked DeAnna and this makes me not like her more.
Jesse is so better off without her…she looked so fake in the cameras.

Jesse will find true love, as for DeAnna she will try to find any another reality show to get in…big deal she won an award!

It is sad for their relationship to be over but this happens in the real world as well.

Jesse, I’m sorry for the pain you’re going through, but it IS better to have “loved and lost than never to have loved” to quote an old cliche’. I have to say, I remember back to when Deanna went to Brad’s home on the original Bachelor series - she showed a very aggressive, selfish, controlling side which made me think “Now, we’ve seen the true Deanna.” She scared me. I NEVER like Deanna throughout that show & NEVER wanted Brad to choose her. She seemed like she was out to get what she wanted and didn’t care who she had to steamroll to get it. Please give your heart time to heal. I know she is beautiful & outgoing, but you deserve a truly decent, fun-loving woman. They are out there. Just got to keep loooking. Good luck! My prayers are with you through your time of grief. Also, don’t forget the country song, “Thank God for Unanswered Prayers.” You never know how much more grief you could be being spared.