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November 3, 2008

DeAnna & Jesse: 'Bachelorette' Romance Over!

The love story is over for "Bachelorette" DeAnna Pappas and Jesse Csincsak -- and the heartbroken pro-snowboarder spills to "Extra" about the split.

Jesse reveals how Pappas ended things, saying, "We took time apart... She came back to Colorado and told me, 'I love you, but I'm not in love with you.' ...I picked her up from the airport and she told me while I was getting her bags."

Csincsak also admits that he was shocked and surprised that DeAnna released a statement about their broken engagement. "She told some of our business associates today first... I didn't know this had been released today," confesses Jesse. "We had agreed after she broke up with me... that we would put together a statement and have it released."

Despite Pappas calling it quits, Jesse admits that he's still in love with the brunette beauty. "I love that woman. She is an amazing person. I am willing to work through it. I love her... I love the way she made me feel. She made me feel like no other." When asked if he'll fight for her and the relationship, he said, "I don't want to fight for a lost cause. I just want her to be happy whether it's with or without me."

DeAnna told her fiancé that she wanted to move to Los Angeles -- and was not willing to go to counseling with him. Jesse explains, "DeAnna said, 'I'm not willing to try anymore.' She had a different idea. I can't argue with her feelings... She's the only one who knows how she feels." The snowboarder now wonders if their relationship was based on publicity, telling "Extra," "the only time she was touchy feely with me was around the cameras."

When asked if he would like to send a message to DeAnna via "Extra," Jesse tearfully said, "I guess I would say I'm sorry for whatever I did to make you not want to be with me."

Jesse and DeAnna are over -- and Csincsak admits that he's jealous of Jason Mesnick, who is looking for love as the next "Bachelor." "I really envy Jason's position right now... It's an amazing show... You could go and fall in love. I would love the opportunity to fall in love again."


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Dear Jesse,I wish you all the best,your an awesome person from what I have seen on TV I will keep you both in my prayers and hope all goes well for you both. I thought you made a great cute couple. Have faith in which I know you do, and leave it in the hands of God because he has a plan for you wether if it’s with or without Deanna. Best to you and your family always.

Irms


- Anonymous
Posted 11/20/08 01:37 PM
 

Seems to me Deanna was looking to get noticed as I see now she will be hosting a show…helping brides make wedding plans. Excuse me. I’m confused.
Jesse, find yourself a snowbunny!


- lorak
Posted 11/18/08 03:15 PM
 

deanna reminds me of the other bachelorette who ended up with andrew firestone and dumped him and went on again the show to find another man….well she fooled everyone..she did not pick a man..she was also about the limelight and the attention, her name was jen schiffer. thats wha deanna is all about…now she is moving to L.A. what for? to become a starlet? it will never happen….everyone is a stepping stone for deanna as long as she gets what she wants she is a user..u go jesse!!! u have everything going for u! dump and stay away from that fat azz deanna.


- Anonymous
Posted 11/15/08 02:24 PM
 

Jesse, You seem like a great guy! Count your blessings, SHE’S A LOOSER! You deserve a wonderful woman, not this fake chick. I hope we see you on “The Bachelor” that will be a great season. God bless you.


- Jillie
Posted 11/14/08 01:22 PM
 

Jesse, You seem like a great guy! Count your blessings, SHE’S A LOOSER!


- Jillie
Posted 11/14/08 01:19 PM
 

Jesse, You seem like a great guy! Count your blessings, SHE’S A LOOSER!


- Jillie
Posted 11/14/08 01:19 PM
 

Jesse,
Find a nice American/Hungarian girl. She will LOVE U and U will like the connection -Trust me. Szeret Lech.
Chao’


- Erika
Posted 11/13/08 04:51 PM
 

I have the best of wishes to Jesse. He is one awesome person. He is so sincere and adorable. I agree with him to continue with his snowboarding and charties. Take time to gather your feelings. I’m sure you will find a great girl in the future.


- Dottie
Posted 11/13/08 04:47 PM
 

DeAnna is such an idiot!!! I could not see how she could have picked Jesse!! They are like chalk and cheese. I don’t even know if DeAnna likes DeAnna. That woman is so foolish it isn’t funny. I think everyone should just say, “Goodbye Fool, enjoy your lonely life,” which is just what she deserves.


- Anonymous
Posted 11/13/08 04:21 PM
 

I feel sorry for Jesse, good guys are hard too find. But if the feelings are not equal it’s never going to work.It’s better to find out now then latter. She did you a favor….


- Janet
Posted 11/13/08 11:14 AM
 

This is very sad. I feel that there was definitely something there…something worth fighting for. I hope that she gets it together soon. Deleting all but good comments from her website won’t change the perception that the public has of her now.


- Chris
Posted 11/13/08 08:55 AM
 

(no hater remarks here)

So, if I was there I’d give you a big hug & tell you that you are a really really awesome person, Jesse. True, I don’t know you in person, but all the things you’ve said about relationships- I believe in them & I know that when you finally do meet the right person, whether it ends up being DeAnna or someone else, it will last. Everyone in my family had gotten married at younger ages (no pressure, just happened) & no one has ever gotten a divorce (Grandparents got married at 17 & 19 & still always seem to be having so much fun together after 50+ years) . Everyone is happy & best friends with their spouse. Why? Because we believe in the same things you’ve said & you’ve quoted your father saying.
As far as time apart goes, that did happen to me too. I ended up getting the chance to study in Japan on a scholarship & ended up being apart from my husband 2 months at a time. Being away from him for so long was hard & in a way, I sort of had to learn how to be on my own again- almost like moving on. When I finally saw him again, it maybe felt weird for just 2 hours, & then just being with him, I was reminded about just how much I love him & how much fun we always had together.
Maybe that’s what happened to DiAnna. She’s mistaking that feeling I also felt for “falling out of love” but if you go & just have fun again, maybe she’d remember? I don’t know, easier said than done, right? But either way, I think your awesome. :) Don’t fret. God has a plan. Maybe it’s not always what we want, but if you trust Him it usually turns out alright. ^_~


- Katrina
Posted 11/13/08 03:13 AM
 

DeAnna Poopass has shown her true colors! If she’s expecting to extend her 15 minutes of fame into a career, she’s fooling herself! Producers SHOULD not allow second chances for participants, as they did with Jen Scheffield as well. That was ALSO a waste of air time!


- Joslyn
Posted 11/11/08 06:35 AM
 

Jesse
DeAnna isn’t in love with you because, DeAnna can only love DeAnna! After watching two seasons of her on both sides of of the coin, she is very self centered.
jv


- JV
Posted 11/10/08 03:55 PM
 

Jesse, you were way too needy. You left no challenge for her. Grow some balls, and quit begging, or you’ll never get another woman again… Jeff


- Jeff
Posted 11/10/08 01:01 AM
 

Jesse,
You are a very genuine person, handsome, clever and humble. You will discover Love with someone who loves you unconditionally. DeAnna is a materialistic woman who will never satisfy with what life has to offer. She is immature and has a lot of soul searching to do for herself. You will find Love again.


- Kate
Posted 11/09/08 07:38 PM
 

The truth of what DeAnna is really doing will come out soon. She loves to hear herself talk as much as she likes the limelight. Jesse you should beat her to the punch, if she has confessed anything to you.


- Jim
Posted 11/07/08 07:01 PM
 

DeAnna’s weight really fluctuates in her bottom half quite easily. Sleeping too much, dear. A baby is going to do the body badly.


- James
Posted 11/07/08 06:58 PM
 

Love is a risk but looking back on the past year it appears that DeAnna really doesn’t know what she wants. She changes her mind like she changes clothes and never comes back to an original. I have followed this couple daily, I thought DeAnna was beautiful and I gave her a ton of credit for not being superficial. Now, I feel played as Jesse must 100 times more. DeAnna you are a very confused girl and what made you so lovable but Jesse. It was the man Jesse is, his beliefs and wise, loving family he is a huge part of. I never, ever liked DeAnna’s dad and I believe his leaving her as a young girl, dealing with her Mom’s demise totally screwed her up. This is why she has become an attention hound. If you look at Jesse’s and DeAnna’s my space pages, Jesse has 10 times the loving comments as DeAnna and I’m sure he did some things wrong too. I do beleive he was in it for the right reasons. DeAnna learned from her prick father YOU LEAVE when the going gets tough, Jesse learned you keep trying and trying and when you succeed you are truly blessed. That is how he came into his parents life. I really lost so much respect for DeAnna when she dumped Jesse at the airport and then never faced all the people that were her fans. It is the same thing she did when she won her award. Her speech was not her usual talkie, talkie to hear me talk self and it took weeks for her to thank the people that put her their. You could tell she was embarressed it wasn’t a gold oscar. I want to know what has given her such an ego. Her selfishness has come out and that is why so many people are over her. I do believe she committed career suicide as stated by someone else. We all know a lot of shallow men will be lining up on here but it will be years before she matures enough to find marriage material. What happened to those babies you wanted by 30? More proof that she does not have any idea of what she wants besides being a beach bum. More proof of her total selfishness is seeing Jesse’s my space page and all of his pictures and what he has been up too. None of that was on DeAnna’s and Jesse’s my space because it wasn’t about her. The only thing I can say you did wrong Jesse was not standing up more for yourself, telling DeAnna she was wrong about more things. Remember when she said that on the show. She needs it and in some ways you changed to much for her love. That mmay have been your fatal mistake. Jesse set a limit to the time you spend mourning and then start dating. Be the gentlemen you are and date as many beautiful women that you are attracted to until you find one very special gal you want to make babies with. Then fall in love, do all you can, marry her and start a family 5 years from now. DeAnna, do get some counseling or you will be struggling 10 years from now and still single without babies. I do believe if you did get some counseling for childhood desertion you would be less selfish and more loving realizing everything is not always a party. Life gets mundane at times ask your sister in law and Tom. Good luck Jesse and DeAnna.


- Jen
Posted 11/07/08 06:44 PM
 

I am not surprised. She gave that line to Jason and hurt him, after leading him and the everyone that he was the one. She wanted that diamond ring, all of the publicity and fun. Now that it is over she wants out. I have a question, did they pay for her wedding dress? And did they buy all of those outfits she wore on the show? I know she “grabbed” everything she could get out of all of this. And does she still get to go on that “all expense paid” vacation in the Caribbean that ABC paid for? Thank goodness Jason is going to find his true love now..


- Connie
Posted 11/06/08 03:33 PM

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