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November 3, 2008

DeAnna & Jesse: 'Bachelorette' Romance Over!

The love story is over for "Bachelorette" DeAnna Pappas and Jesse Csincsak -- and the heartbroken pro-snowboarder spills to "Extra" about the split.

Jesse reveals how Pappas ended things, saying, "We took time apart... She came back to Colorado and told me, 'I love you, but I'm not in love with you.' ...I picked her up from the airport and she told me while I was getting her bags."

Csincsak also admits that he was shocked and surprised that DeAnna released a statement about their broken engagement. "She told some of our business associates today first... I didn't know this had been released today," confesses Jesse. "We had agreed after she broke up with me... that we would put together a statement and have it released."

Despite Pappas calling it quits, Jesse admits that he's still in love with the brunette beauty. "I love that woman. She is an amazing person. I am willing to work through it. I love her... I love the way she made me feel. She made me feel like no other." When asked if he'll fight for her and the relationship, he said, "I don't want to fight for a lost cause. I just want her to be happy whether it's with or without me."

DeAnna told her fiancé that she wanted to move to Los Angeles -- and was not willing to go to counseling with him. Jesse explains, "DeAnna said, 'I'm not willing to try anymore.' She had a different idea. I can't argue with her feelings... She's the only one who knows how she feels." The snowboarder now wonders if their relationship was based on publicity, telling "Extra," "the only time she was touchy feely with me was around the cameras."

When asked if he would like to send a message to DeAnna via "Extra," Jesse tearfully said, "I guess I would say I'm sorry for whatever I did to make you not want to be with me."

Jesse and DeAnna are over -- and Csincsak admits that he's jealous of Jason Mesnick, who is looking for love as the next "Bachelor." "I really envy Jason's position right now... It's an amazing show... You could go and fall in love. I would love the opportunity to fall in love again."


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deanna is a self absorbed b*tch. jesse has to move on in his life, he can’t be hanging on to something that isn’t there. yeah, she played him for a fool, but he who laughs last laughs the hardest, jesse will be the one to laugh the hardest.


- jesse wil b the 1 to have the last laugh
Posted 01/06/09 08:23 AM
 

It could be that Deanna got addicted to the spot light. Thats why she forced her way back on the show to mess with Jason’s head, and thats why the move to LA. It happens…


- Victoria
Posted 01/06/09 07:30 AM
 

I just heard the news and I can’t believe it! Jesse hang in there heartache hurts I’ve been through it several times myself and have finally found my prince charming don’t loose hope, you will find your princess! And as for you DeAnna I hope you never find love how many hearts do you have to break in order to be happy? I hope Jason laughs at you when you beg for his love back… you’re an idiot!


- Stacy
Posted 01/06/09 07:16 AM
 

jesse you are real
deanna is a fake


- michael
Posted 01/06/09 01:29 AM
 

jesse,
i was completely shocked when i heard that you and Deanna split up. i truelly hope you find someone who is worthy of your love. Until then, hold your head high and live life to the fullest.

~faith~


- Anonymous
Posted 01/05/09 11:18 PM
 

JESSE IS THE ONE HOGGING UP THE SPOTLIGHT, WHERE IS DEANNA? ENOUGH OF JESSE, HEARTS ARE BROKEN EVERDAY, YOU DON’T SEE THEM ON EXTRA DO YOU? TIME FOR JESSE TO MOVE ON HE WILL DO JUST FINE.


- don't boo hoo anymore jesse move on
Posted 01/04/09 06:11 AM
 

I think it is awful that Deanna could play with someones emotions like that. Jesse was a good guy. People should realize what they have when they have it. She was not in it for love just a show for her.


- Mary
Posted 01/03/09 12:16 PM
 

OK JESSE, QUIT YOUR CRYING AND TAKE IT LIKE A MAN!!!TIME 4 U 2 MOVE ON! U R THE 1 HOGGING UP THE SPOTLIGHT. EITHER SHUT UP OR PUT UP.


- SHUT UP OR PUT UP
Posted 12/31/08 08:06 AM
 

nbdferssdezcrcncwell, hi admin adn people nice forum indeed. how’s life? hope it’s introduce branch ;)


- jernBymnUndenda
Posted 12/29/08 02:39 PM
 

one door has to close so another door can open.u r not the first guy to have your heart broken and you’re not the last. i do feel bad for u however I have had enough of your publicity.


- don't boo hoo anymore jesse move on
Posted 12/27/08 08:49 PM
 

Jesse,
I am so hurt for you..how could Deanna be so cruel…now I see that she was only trying to get noticed by the media…..especially since you said the only time she was affectionate was in front of the camera’s. She is the one that will be sorry..I know you will find your soulmate…and certainly someone better than the LOSER Deanna. Good Luck Jesse……you are a great guy.


- JANET - ILLINOIS
Posted 12/27/08 04:08 PM
 

Deanna was all about her self and how much notice she could get.
miss deanna remember what goes around comes around.


- linda
Posted 12/21/08 05:54 PM
 

Jesse, I completely fell in love with you and your romance and was very happy when DeAnna selected you. There is a word for women like her, but it isn’t used in polite society, outside of a kennel. Hold your head high, Jesse. You are a beautiful (and cute) person and there a hundreds of girls who would welcome your love (I certainly would if I were 30 years younger :)



- Robin
Posted 12/11/08 09:10 AM
 

Jesse, keep you chin up. I am sad and surprised to hear how DeAnna can so coldly walk away from a man who she pledged her love and promised to marry. DeAnna has hurt way too many men in her attempts to find the so-called perfect man. Geesh - DeAnna you should be ashamed!


- loraine
Posted 12/08/08 10:59 PM
 

Praying that your heart heals. Just keep hoping and praying and believing and trusting God. Focus on continuing to develop your character during this difficult season. Focus on giving to others and reaching out and you will be blessed. Eventually you will move on past this and when the time is right, you will find true love. (Take it from someone who is happily married. True love spells H-A-R-D-W-O-R-K and T-I-M-E.)

God bless you Jesse!


- Rz
Posted 12/04/08 12:45 PM
 

Jesse, This isn’t the place to trash DeAnna. You love/loved her and wish her well and we should wish her well too. Personally, I thought you had the most character out of all the guys and I was really hoping you two would make it the Trista and Ryan style….
I’m praying for the right love to come into your life!


- Janet
Posted 12/03/08 12:00 AM
 

Dude get a grip and grow some Balls !!! dont go on TV and cry for a girl you just met. she did you a favor, rather you find out now then after two kids, child support, wife support. remember what go”s around comes around!


- LHL
Posted 12/01/08 08:18 PM
 

Jesse - just want to let you know that love is better the second time if you do not close your heart. You should always cherish the time you had with Deanna and remember the good….. Stay open to new opportunites you are a fabulous, one in a million guy and I know that love will find you again someday!! When it does, it will be better than before, because you will know yourself better and all the bitter crap becomes worth it because you learn from it. Stacey


- Stacey
Posted 11/25/08 08:08 AM
 

Hey Jesse, you should be glad to be rid of that piece of c__p. She is just a selfish pig. They say that beauty is only skin deep. You deserve alot better than her. I knew she was going to do that to you and all for 15 minutes of fame. Everyboday felt sorry for Jason and Jeremey that she didn’t pick them. Nobody is good enough for her because she only loves herself. I’m sure that you will find a more down to earth lady who appreciates you for who you are. Just thank God that you found out bhefore you wasted all that money on a wedding. There is someone out there for you, just don’t do any more reality T.V. most of those people are sick and only go on those shows to get noticed, but what they don’t get is that they are here today and gone tomorrow. I doubt that her show that she is going to get won’t even last one season


- t
Posted 11/24/08 07:47 PM
 

Jesse,
I never missed a single episode of the Bachelorette that you and Deanna were on.
I really thought you two had made a once in a life time connection. Do you think Deanna did not want to live in the snow? I cannot think of another reason why she would not be completely in love with you, because you two connected so well (so I thought)! I wonder what made her change her mind?
I guess there is never a good time for couples to break up, but it is even worse after 13 years of marriage and 3 kids (which is what happened to me). I then back in 1991, as a divorced mother raised all 3 children by myself for 9 years. And after going on dates with guys that were not right for me and my family, I finally met the most kindest and giving man ever at Church. God just brought him into my life and dropped him into my lap when I least expected it. We have been happily married for 8 years now and just became empty nesters since my youngest daughter just went off to college this past summer.
You are a perfect gentleman and that is what a woman looking for a good husband and father of her children is looking for. You have the most fantastic role models which are your parents.
I know that God has a beautiful,caring lady just waiting for you and when you two find one another you both will be forever blessed. Hang in there and God will bring the right woman into your life, just pray about it and he will hear your prayers because he already knows your heart. You will have a life long love that will last FOREVER, not just for a couple of months. I think you will end up having exactly what your parents have which is priceless, and will have a forever life mate and love to grow old with.
May God bless you and keep you safely in his loving arms.


- Julie W
Posted 11/20/08 08:47 PM

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