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November 3, 2008

DeAnna & Jesse: 'Bachelorette' Romance Over!

The love story is over for "Bachelorette" DeAnna Pappas and Jesse Csincsak -- and the heartbroken pro-snowboarder spills to "Extra" about the split.

Jesse reveals how Pappas ended things, saying, "We took time apart... She came back to Colorado and told me, 'I love you, but I'm not in love with you.' ...I picked her up from the airport and she told me while I was getting her bags."

Csincsak also admits that he was shocked and surprised that DeAnna released a statement about their broken engagement. "She told some of our business associates today first... I didn't know this had been released today," confesses Jesse. "We had agreed after she broke up with me... that we would put together a statement and have it released."

Despite Pappas calling it quits, Jesse admits that he's still in love with the brunette beauty. "I love that woman. She is an amazing person. I am willing to work through it. I love her... I love the way she made me feel. She made me feel like no other." When asked if he'll fight for her and the relationship, he said, "I don't want to fight for a lost cause. I just want her to be happy whether it's with or without me."

DeAnna told her fiancé that she wanted to move to Los Angeles -- and was not willing to go to counseling with him. Jesse explains, "DeAnna said, 'I'm not willing to try anymore.' She had a different idea. I can't argue with her feelings... She's the only one who knows how she feels." The snowboarder now wonders if their relationship was based on publicity, telling "Extra," "the only time she was touchy feely with me was around the cameras."

When asked if he would like to send a message to DeAnna via "Extra," Jesse tearfully said, "I guess I would say I'm sorry for whatever I did to make you not want to be with me."

Jesse and DeAnna are over -- and Csincsak admits that he's jealous of Jason Mesnick, who is looking for love as the next "Bachelor." "I really envy Jason's position right now... It's an amazing show... You could go and fall in love. I would love the opportunity to fall in love again."


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jesse dont worry you will fround ture love one day and she will be sorry and deanna i think was just play you a long . jesse, florence


- florence
Posted 11/03/08 04:09 PM
 

DeAnna is not a sincere person and she gets upset so easily….Jesse should be happy she broke up with him, because I do not think she would be good for a relationship. I think she has a complex because of her huge thighs….


- lulu
Posted 11/03/08 04:07 PM
 

I always liked Jesse better than I liked Deanna anyway. She’s self-centered and controlling. Jesse, you can do better!


- Phoebe
Posted 11/03/08 03:59 PM
 

I can’t think of how Jesse is being a wimp right now. Okay, he loved her. But, the reason I am divorced is that I too fell out of love with my husband. I lived that lie for over 2 years before I had to tell him. I could not live like that for a minute more.
I praise DEANNA for telling him the truth. And now she’s gonna get nothing but bad press fro being honest!


- Pink Parasol
Posted 11/03/08 03:57 PM
 

I feel badly for Jesse, but is this REALLY the way to fall in love? The show has had ONE success story (as in marriage). Who in their right mind would search for their soul mate in unrealistic conditions? After the cameras turn off, and the flow of expensive wine and bubbly stops flowing, you have 2 human beings who really don’t know diddly about one another. Even though Jesse seems like a nice guy, I wonder why anyone would subject themselves to this kind of warfare (unless they are seeking fame or other notoriety). It’s understandable people want to find true love, but finding Love on network TV seems pretty nonproductive to me.





- Andrea
Posted 11/03/08 03:51 PM
 

Deeanna was using you Jesse, it was so obvious. She got the publicity she wanted and now off she goes to LA to try and i say TRY to make a name for herself….she started off as a nobody and LA will eat her up and spit her back to her hometown….your soul mate is out there…she is a heartbeat away


- Jillie
Posted 11/03/08 03:45 PM
 

Jesse is better off. Deanna is a loud mouth, controlling witch and nobody is good enough for her, except the players that would never put up with her cwap anyway.


- Binky
Posted 11/03/08 03:44 PM
 

I feel badly for Jesse, but is this REALLY the way to fall in love? The show has had ONE success story (as in marriage). Who in their right mind would search for their soul mate in unrealistic conditions? After the cameras turn off, and the flow of expensive wine and bubbly stops flowing, you have 2 human beings who really don’t know diddly about one another. Even though Jesse seems like a nice guy, I wonder why anyone would subject themselves to this kind of warfare (unless they are seeking fame or other notarity). P.S. And, I’m single - and I would never subject myself to that show.


- Andrea
Posted 11/03/08 03:42 PM
 

I thought from the beginning that Deanna was stuck up and just looking for publicity…! I feel sorry for Jesse but he’s better off. Jason’s the one that ROCK’S…..

Eric


- Eric
Posted 11/03/08 03:41 PM
 

No one should be surprised at this. The Bachelor and Bachelorette have only married of one couple. Meeting someone on a reality show is not the best way to meat the person of your dreams. If Pappas wanted to end the relationship, maybe this wasn’t the way to do it. I feel for the guy however. I’m just glad Pappas is available now! I’d love to meet her.


- krock1dk
Posted 11/03/08 03:41 PM
 

I never liked Jesse, never thought he was right for DeAnna and thought Jesse too immature.


- Jill
Posted 11/03/08 03:34 PM
 

I feel for you Jessee, Deanna why the hell did you carry this as far as you did? you are not a teenager you know the difference between being inlove or just caring for someone, your a piece of work!!Jessee stay away from the show, please don’t try and meet 25 people and think it will work, give yourself time, the right one is out there and the wait will be worth it, be happy this happened now and not after marriage, I know you will meet the right one Jessee, I know you feel like a knife has been stabed in your heart, but there is a reason for everything, you can not imagine it now, but you will be so much more happier when the real right one comes along and you will have no doubts, I wish you all the best, live life, travel write a book just take your time and keep your heart open no matter how hard it seems.


- janice
Posted 11/03/08 03:33 PM
 

I hope Jesse is able to get past this and find true love. He is much better off without her in the long run.


- J
Posted 11/03/08 03:31 PM
 

Figures!!! I knew she was concieted but I never thought she’d be this SELFISH!! Poor Jesse!! Then again, he deserves so much better! Thank goodness she let Jason go before she took him and his son for a ride!! I’m hoping she struggles with all her next relationships, and that Jesse & Jason find amazing true loves that last!!!


- Daniela
Posted 11/03/08 03:15 PM
 

Okay, Okay,
I must admit that I blamed Brad when he mentionned that he had that weird feeling about DeAnna that she looked like someone who doesn’t know what she wants….for me it was a weak excuse!
It is obvious that we dont how things went btw these 2 but, it seems that DeAnna has preconceived ideas about love…for what it worth now, I wish her to find love that fits her wishes and Jesse to fall in love once again


- Anonymous
Posted 11/03/08 03:05 PM
 

I have never cried so much at a
TV show than I did the final Bachlorette with Deanna and Jesse. I thought if there is love like that out there then they are the luckiest people in the world. I somehow thought in the back of my mind that she may not be as real as we wanted to believe. Jesse loved that girl to death and I think she has some serious issues to have put him through this. I agree that she propably wanted more of the limelight in Hollywood than a life with Jesse. If I were young again I would fight tooth and nail for a guy like that. When your on top of the world and all is watching it’s fantastic. When the lights are dim again and it’s reality time it’s not so exciting. Been there and it hurts like hell…… Jesse will find that girl that will accept him for who he is and as for as Deanna, well she will get hers. I was so looking forward to another Trista and Ryan happy ending. Good luck to Jason, our next new Bachelor. He is better off without Deanna also. She may be a great girl but find out what you want before you hurt someone else.


- Gina
Posted 11/03/08 03:05 PM
 

I bet Deanna heads to wherever they’re currently filming “The Bachelor” with Jason Mesnick. Wouldn’t it be hilarious if she appears mid-season as a surprise, latecomer contestent to win back Jason?


- julie
Posted 11/03/08 02:58 PM
 

Don’t forget, folks! Jesse went on the show to promote himself and his sponsors. He fell in love in the process but his initial intentions weren’t proper and sometimes this is what happens.


- sjcaligurl
Posted 11/03/08 02:54 PM
 

People! Calm down. Sometimes things don’t work out and there is always more than one side to the story. How many times did someone on that season say “love is risk?” They both took it and it failed. No harm. No foul. There is now marriage and there are no children. They are both under 30. Neither of them need to be planning forever in this day and age. It rarely happens.


- sjcaligurl
Posted 11/03/08 02:50 PM
 

In all the clips with them, Deanna seemed like she was forcing herself to put on a show. Her body language was so telling. When he’d lean in she’d kind of pull away or turn away. But Jesse’s just as much to blame since he’s willing to settle for somebody who doesn’t appreciate him in the traditional sense.


- jane
Posted 11/03/08 02:49 PM

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