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November 3, 2008

DeAnna & Jesse: 'Bachelorette' Romance Over!

The love story is over for "Bachelorette" DeAnna Pappas and Jesse Csincsak -- and the heartbroken pro-snowboarder spills to "Extra" about the split.

Jesse reveals how Pappas ended things, saying, "We took time apart... She came back to Colorado and told me, 'I love you, but I'm not in love with you.' ...I picked her up from the airport and she told me while I was getting her bags."

Csincsak also admits that he was shocked and surprised that DeAnna released a statement about their broken engagement. "She told some of our business associates today first... I didn't know this had been released today," confesses Jesse. "We had agreed after she broke up with me... that we would put together a statement and have it released."

Despite Pappas calling it quits, Jesse admits that he's still in love with the brunette beauty. "I love that woman. She is an amazing person. I am willing to work through it. I love her... I love the way she made me feel. She made me feel like no other." When asked if he'll fight for her and the relationship, he said, "I don't want to fight for a lost cause. I just want her to be happy whether it's with or without me."

DeAnna told her fiancé that she wanted to move to Los Angeles -- and was not willing to go to counseling with him. Jesse explains, "DeAnna said, 'I'm not willing to try anymore.' She had a different idea. I can't argue with her feelings... She's the only one who knows how she feels." The snowboarder now wonders if their relationship was based on publicity, telling "Extra," "the only time she was touchy feely with me was around the cameras."

When asked if he would like to send a message to DeAnna via "Extra," Jesse tearfully said, "I guess I would say I'm sorry for whatever I did to make you not want to be with me."

Jesse and DeAnna are over -- and Csincsak admits that he's jealous of Jason Mesnick, who is looking for love as the next "Bachelor." "I really envy Jason's position right now... It's an amazing show... You could go and fall in love. I would love the opportunity to fall in love again."


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Hi Jesse and Deanna - I am sorry it did not work out - best to find out now before getting married. Don’t take it hard - I really saw you mostly as good friends - maybe you can stay friends. Just because someone breaks up does not mean they are a bad person - the timing or something was not right. The right person shows up when you are not looking and loving yourself! Kathy in Napa


- Kathy
Posted 11/03/08 06:59 PM
 

hope you LEFT her at the airport…


- Julia
Posted 11/03/08 06:58 PM
 

Jesse,

I really thought that you two seemed so good together. I’m so sorry things didn’t work out. But I guess things are not always as they seem. Your comments about her not wanting to display affection away from the cameras are very telling. She may have been in it for the fame, unfortunately.

The way she told you in public at the airport was pretty heartless.

I’m so sorry this didn’t work out. You are a really special guy-one of a few sensitive, humble, strong, and real types. There aren’t many guys like you. You are what so many women are looking for in a true partnership. You seem to have the capability to be a caring partner in a relationship. I know you’re hurting right now, but one day you will feel better again and may even be grateful for this turn of events. Imagine living a lifetime in a marriage lacking affection. When you meet the wonderful woman who really loves you and is willing to be affectionate in public or private and feels as lucky to be with you as you do her, this will make sense.

Take care of yourself and stay true to yourself. Take time to mend. You can trust your parents and your true friends to be there for you now. Any woman would be lucky to have you. You are so genuine and handsome and so much more real than she was. You’re a catch.


- anonymous
Posted 11/03/08 06:52 PM
 

this woman was way too into herself. one day, he’ll thank her for dumping him.


- karen
Posted 11/03/08 06:47 PM
 

I actually knew it would never work. I was so shocked when she chose Jesse, because she really never acted like she was that into him. No offense to Jesse. She is so fake and will never be happy.


- Teresa
Posted 11/03/08 06:39 PM
 

Deanna is totally superficial and all about Deanna. Her lack of sincerity was evident thruout the show. Sadly for Jesse, he didn’t realize it. If she thinks anyone is going to trust her again, good luck.


- ~m
Posted 11/03/08 06:39 PM
 

No surprises here - she never seemed sincere. I think it was all about her fifteen or so minutes of fame.


- Leslie
Posted 11/03/08 06:32 PM
 

Jesse…. I don’t know if you are reading these all…but I hope you do. I know it is upsetting and hurtful, but believe me… there is a reason for everything. God showed me that. I think one could get blinded or lost in love …lust in the beginning. You know how it is in the beginning..add the cameras, and forget it…what IS real? Anyway, honestly, I never liked her from the first show she was on. Doesn’t anyone remember how nasty she was with the other girls? She was controlling and manipulative. ….I couldn’t believe the first bachelor fell for her. I was in shock… She seemed phony. Then she came back for her show and I saw a different side of her.. I thought maybe she is sincere… UGHH! What a phony…Please …things could always have been worse…you could have gotten married or had children. Thank God you can go on with your life. Just learn from it…be thankful for your time with her and value the lessons you learned, about yourself too, what may you do different or BETTER the next time? You will do great! Don’t even worry about her… and maybe you should think yourself why you may want to welcome her back? ..we all make mistakes… but she does have some issues that even us in TV land noticed… You will be fine and look back with a thankful and clearer mind and heart. Bless ur journey!!


- Angela
Posted 11/03/08 06:14 PM
 

I was a big fan of you two, but Jesse I’m sorry to hear about this breakup. I can tell how hurt you are on your video. I am where you are, just trying to find love. Take it day by day and I’m hoping that it turns out the best for you.


- Anonymous
Posted 11/03/08 05:53 PM
 

Jesse, I am so sorry about your loss. I know DeAnna will be feeling it too. I do think her family and her desire for fame are part of the problem. I am sorry she didn’t respect your relationship enough to be true to her word about disclosing this. That shows a selfishness I never wanted to see. I noticed the last few interviews she had changed and I felt very sad for the two of you, but more so you. Honestly, she does not come from the quality family like you do and it was apparent when you were in Georgia and no pictures. Her Dad and her sister never tried to help her adjust and do the right thing. That bothered me. I do believe DeAnna is going to have some regrets but I also think she is used to having her way and right now she wants fame. She has even put the babies on the back burner since she has had a little taste of it. The way she dealt with this caused her some enemies though. It was your appearing relationship that was wanted by so many and she will find this out. This is the perfect time of year to throw yourself into your work. Remember you are a Pro snowboarder and now is the time to shine. Snowboard, snowboard and snowboard some more. Plug everything you can because you are hot, hot, hot and it is money, money, money. The summer must have cost you a fortune. Do not get crazy on those mountains, be safe, take time to heal and start fighting off the woman. Your training schedule just got packed and you will meet another beautiful, loving lady when your heart is open to it. I pray she is from Breck because that was part of Dee’s problem. You have great friends, the best parents and a heart of gold. Never doubt yourself. Hang in there…you are loved by more people than you will ever know. DO NOT, DO NOT let this affect who you are because that is what America loves. Again Jesse, I am so sorry.


- Jeanette Delich
Posted 11/03/08 05:51 PM
 

Wow, she only wanted to kiss and make out in front of the cameras. who does that sound like?

Maybe DeAnna and Andy Baldwin should get together. lol two of a kind, a couple of fame whores…………..


- Anonymous
Posted 11/03/08 05:48 PM
 

We are so sorry to hear this..
they seemed so happy.. Jesse
you will be fine, you will find
the one true love, do not let this get you down, you are a great guy.


- Anonymous
Posted 11/03/08 05:36 PM
 

We feel so bad about this. THey seemed so happy. Good luck Jesse, you will find true love, do not let this get you down.


- Jane
Posted 11/03/08 05:32 PM
 

DeAnna will live to regret leaving Jesse - she is on a power surge! She’s very self-centered, and bossy, looking to find someone else & stardom - the camera’s & showbiz have gone to her gone to her head!
Jesse you will find someone that will love you like you want to be loved - only give yourself a short time to grieve & get on with your life!!
KY FAN


- Anonymous
Posted 11/03/08 05:23 PM
 

Deanna is a born actor, and that’s all she was doing. Remember how angry she was when Brad dumped her? He humiliated her and she had to return as a Bachelorette to take control, and do it HER way. Jesse, you’re too good for her, and you’ll find someone who really loves you on the slopes. As for Deanna, I will never watch anything she appears in again. What a phony!!


- Cate
Posted 11/03/08 05:22 PM
 

JESSE, you are too good for her!! You will meet the right one!! She is a selfish, self-centered camera hungry @#$%!!!


- Arilanne
Posted 11/03/08 05:21 PM
 

Oh poor Jesse. Deanna who are you waiting for to fall in love gal? Am curious as to why she waited this long to break the poor guy’s heart.


- ndasity@hotmail.com
Posted 11/03/08 05:15 PM
 

DeAnna——-You are a selfish b*tch~
You didn’t like what Brad did to you
(lead you on) and look what you did to Jesse. By the way, how is Graham? You lead Jesse into a wedding that was never gonna happen. You give real, good women a bad name. Hope you find your true love even if it is your pet dog.


- Kim
Posted 11/03/08 05:15 PM
 


I think Graham came back into the picture. He was the one she actually fell in love with first. I’ll bet we’ll read about them down the road!


- anita
Posted 11/03/08 05:06 PM
 

I agree I think she is self centered and played such a victim with Brad,your too good of a guy Jesse, she doesn’t deserve you. She did exactly what she cried Brad did to her. She will make some poor man miserable just be glad it wasn’t you.


- Anonymous
Posted 11/03/08 05:06 PM

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