Are You Working Out to Death?

It's the dangerous obsession that may have ruined Madonna's marriage. If you've seen Madge lately, you know she's gotten shockingly thin. Some have said she has a workout obsession... that lead to a sex life depression, with rumors Guy Ritchie didn't have sex with Madonna for 18 months -- because she was too obsessed with working out.

The obsession with working out is the subject of a new film in the Showtime Latino Filmmaker Showcase movie from director Dago Rodriguez called "Dysmorphia," the story of a man who succumbs to Body Dysmorphic Disorder after breaking up with his girlfriend.

Bravo fitness queen Jackie Warner says the syndrome is becoming more common and explains, "You do lose sex drive," adding, "You become fatigued so you're going to get a little grumpier, too. That can mess up a marriage pretty good." Jackie says in the case of people like Madonna, commitment to fitness can quickly turn addictive. "Clearly, Madonna is ripped, so she's very, very lean and she's very vascular," she says. "What that means is the veins are showing through the skin."

Jackie's recommendation? Simple but true -- everything in moderation. Don't exceed an hour and a half at the gym, "and that's about three to five times a week," says Jackie.

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I highly doubt that a business woman like Jackie has time to work out MORE than 1 1/2 hours MORE than 5 times a week. It’s not necessary, and as a fitness professional she would know the appropriate rest times for major muscle groups…which is why most people do not exceed 3 days of lifting in the gym per week.

Jenn
March 25, 2009

A “Joke”?…..Here are the “Facts” and tell me if this is a joke. Betsy, for the record I do not work for the show, as I believe you assumed. You are right though…who knows if Madonna suffers from this, who knows if you do, or if I do, or if your neighbor does? But is it not our responsibility to at least be aware of this. This disorder affects millions…MILLIONS! And most don’t even know it. Celebrities are always going to be used and abused by the media, that’s our culture, and that saddens me to have to even write that, but they are used when they do something of great significance and when they do something that “goes against the public’s moral’s and ideology” (?) When are we going to begin to understand our place, understand that we can help, that we can reach out with a touch rather than a slap? You obviously watch this show, or else you would have never seen this. I am not assuming that you watch it everyday, but you seem to know enough, that I will assume this wasn’t the first time. So why watch? You know what this show is about…it updates the public on the rich and famous…but if you look deeper, you will see that they touch on issues such as BDD, infidelity, race, money, greed, adoption…but also focus on those giving back to those who are in need and who are trying to making a difference. Not all are role models, but some are and that is why we, WE…are shocked or moved when someone as giving and genuine as Mr. Newman passes. We must learn to embrace. Jealousy will get us no where, it will only cripple our spirit, and why do that when we only have one crack at this beautiful term called LIFE. The point is that, if one person is helped by this, then we as a race are better off. But we have to believe…
I am not a reporter, a journalist nor am I rich or poor….I just care. Look past the product and look into the human being, that is where I see the truth.

sean
November 10, 2008

Overview of BDD:

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders defines body dysmorphic disorder as a preoccupation with an imagined or minor defect in appearance which causes clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning. The individual’s symptoms mustn’t be better accounted for by another disorder, for example weight concern is usually more accurately attributed to an eating disorder.
The disorder generally is diagnosed in those who are extremely critical of their physique or self-image even though there may be no noticeable disfigurement or defect, or a minor defect which is not recognised by most people. Most people wish that they could change or improve some aspect of their physical appearance; but people suffering from BDD, generally of normal or even highly attractive appearance, believe that they are so unspeakably hideous that they are unable to interact with others or function normally for fear of ridicule and humiliation about their appearance. They tend to be very secretive and reluctant to seek help because they fear that others will think them vain or because they feel too embarrassed. It has also been suggested that fewer men seek help for the disorder than women.
Ironically, BDD is often misunderstood as a vanity-driven obsession, whereas it is quite the opposite, for people with BDD believe themselves to be irrevocably ugly or defective.
BDD combines obsessive and compulsive aspects, linking it, among psychologists, to the Obsessive-Compulsive spectrum disorders. People with BDD may compulsively look at themselves in the mirror or avoid mirrors, typically think about their appearance for at least one hour a day (and usually more), and in severe cases may drop all social contact and responsibilities as they become a recluse.
A German study has shown that 1–2% of the population meet all the diagnostic criteria of BDD, with a larger percentage showing milder symptoms of the disorder (Psychological Medicine, vol 36, p 877). Chronically low self-esteem is characteristic of those with BDD, because the one’s assessment of one’s value is so closely linked with one’s perception of one’s appearance. BDD is diagnosed equally in men and women, and causes chronic social anxiety for its sufferers.
Phillips & Menard (2006) found the completed-suicide rate in patients with BDD was 45 times higher than in the general United States population. This rate is more than double that of those with clinical depression and three times as high as that of those with bipolar disorder. Suicidal ideation is also found in around 80% of people with BDD. There has also been a suggested link between undiagnosed BDD and a higher than average suicide rate among people who have undergone cosmetic surgery.

sean
November 10, 2008

Common symptoms and behaviors

There are many common symptoms and behaviors associated with BDD. Often these symptoms and behaviours are determined by the nature of the BDD sufferer’s perceived defect, for example, use of cosmetics is most common in those with a perceived skin defect, therefore many BDD sufferers will only display a few common symptoms and behaviors.
[edit]Symptoms
Common symptoms of BDD include:
Obsessive thoughts about perceived appearance defect.
Obsessive and compulsive behaviors related to perceived appearance defect (see section below).
Major depressive disorder symptoms.
Delusional thoughts and beliefs related to perceived appearance defect.
Social and family withdrawal, social phobia, loneliness and self-imposed social isolation.
Suicidal ideation.
Anxiety; possible panic attacks.
Chronic low self-esteem.
Feeling self-conscious in social environments; thinking that others notice and mock their perceived defect.
Strong feelings of shame.
Avoidant personality: avoiding leaving the home, or only leaving the home at certain times, for example, at night.
Dependant personality: dependence on others, such as a partner, friend or parents.
Inability to work or an inability to focus at work due to preoccupation with appearance.
Decreased academic performance (problems maintaining grades, problems with school/college attendance).
Problems initiating and maintaining relationships (both intimate relationships and friendships).
Alcohol and/or drug abuse (often an attempt to self-medicate).

sean
November 10, 2008

The Disabling Effects of BDD

BDD can be anywhere from slightly to severely debilitating. It can make normal employment or family life impossible. Those who are in regular employment or who have family responsibilities would almost certainly find life more productive and satisfying if they did not have the symptoms. The partners and family of sufferers of BDD may also become involved and suffer greatly, sometimes losing their loved one to suicide.
Studies have shown a positive correlation between BDD symptoms and poor quality of life. Quality of life for inidividuals with BDD has also been shown to be poorer than those found in major depressive disorder, dysthymia, obsessive-compulsive disorder, social phobia, panic disorder, premenstrual dysphoric disorder and Post traumatic stress disorder.[23]
Because BDD onset typically occurs in adolescence, an individual’s academic performance may be significantly impacted. Depending on the severity of symptoms, an individual may experience great difficulty maintaining grades and attendance or, in severe cases, an individual may drop out of school and therefore not reach the academic level they are capable of. The vast majority of people with BBD (90%) say that their disorder impacts on their academic/occupational functioning,[5] while 99% say that their disorder impacts on their social functioning.[5] Despite a strong desire for relationships with other people, many BDD sufferers will instead choose to be lonely rather than risk being rejected or humiliated about their appearance by getting involved with people. Many people with BDD also have coexisting social phobia and/or avoidant personality disorder, making the sufferer’s ability to establish relationships even more difficult.
Sufferers of BDD may often find themselves getting almost ‘stuck’ in moping around. That is to say that sufferers, with such a type of depression, can in some cases appear to take a long time to get everything done. However, this is not actually the case, as it is simply that the BDD sufferers will often just sit or lie down for prolonged periods of time, without being able to actually motivate themselves until it becomes completely necessary to get back up. This can often cause little to get done by sufferers, and they can have little self motivation with anything, including relationships with other people. However, contrary to this, when the action is relevant to the person’s image, it is more common for the sufferer to exhibit a fanatic and extreme approach, applying their attention fully to self-grooming/modification.

sean
November 10, 2008

I have a friend who has that problem. With 4 kids, she works out 5 times a day, an hour at a time. It’s not good.

Melody
November 4, 2008

Gymrat and Betsy — great comments! SO true— let’s see some REAL reporting and something called checking “sources” and facts before tying Madonna to this so-called “disorder.” The woman Extra refers to, Jackie Warner, DEFINITELY works out more than 1 1/2 hrs 3-5 times a week and herself is thin, but that is not the main problem; it’s Jackie, in fact, ‘diagnosing’ or pronouncing some verdict on someone she doesn’t know. Different strokes for different folks, I say, and if some want to and can work out more than others, then let them be! What is up with this constant attempt to discipline and normalize all others, as if the same shoe size fits all??
Just don’t go blaming Madonna or trying to paint her in a certain light because of your own insecurities and what you project on to her, someone you don’t even know.
Even IF some of this gossip and trash talking is traceable back to Guy, all I can say is I sure wouldn’t want to look like him. He’s already a bit of a pudgeball, and dowdy, headed for more loose clothing days ahead, and he’s only 40!

E Fan Madonna
October 30, 2008

In the video the woman says not to exceed an hour and a half at the gym, but in the article they mis-quote her as saying not to exceed a half hour. Good work guys.

gymrat
October 25, 2008

Not saying the disorder isn’t real, was just commenting on the lack of good journalism in some many stories on these types of shows, as well as in mags. Rumors say…. an insider says….. according to the Enquirer.

Take the high road and do some real reporting. And wow your show loves to push products….. from the touchable screen, and always pitching products in the guise of stories.

betsy
October 24, 2008

the story may be a joke…but Body Dysmorphic Disorder is not! For that reason alone, this story has just reached many, millions and awareness may finally have been brought to this horrible mental disorder that millions suffer from without even knowing. For that, I applaud the show for airing it.

sean
October 24, 2008

What a joke —— who knows if this is true about Madonna but can’t believe how your show and others really show “true” journalism. I can’t believe how often I hear stories that say “rummors” say that blah, blah. Maybe you should spend more time finding actual news based on facts rather than drooling over all this nonsense based on rumors. Just contributing to the dumbing down of America. Ah, all about ratings.

betsy
October 24, 2008
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