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January 11, 2008

Tila Tequila: The Real Reason Love Ended in Heartache

Posted on January 11, 2008

Tila Tequila, star of the hit MTV reality show "A Shot at Love," is speaking out to "Extra" about what really went down between she and the show's winner, Bobby Banhart.

Contrary to reports that Bobby wasn't able to contact Tila, she tells us, "We couldn't see each other for 2 months after (the finale), and we only talked on the phone. Just naturally, people kind of move on with their lives. We tried our best to keep in touch and keep it going, but after a while, all of this camera stuff, he just couldn't handle it."

How did the relationship end? "He called me a few days before New Years and broke it off! Why would he leave these?," Tila declared, pointing to her breasts.

As for the runner up, lesbian contestant Dani Campbell, Tila says, "I keep in touch, but I try not to keep in touch with everyone because I'm starting over. She's a great person and we're still friends."

A second season of "A Shot at Love" will be filming soon, and Tila admits, "I'm still looking for love. I don't want to go to clubs all the time, so we're gonna do it all over again."


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hey if u want love call me haha
lol forget what all the mean stuff people have to say wo cares u pick who liked!:]
ps marry mee plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!
♥♥♥


- mayra
Posted 01/16/08 01:19 PM
 
 

heyy girll … ur soo friggin awsomeee and ur sexyy !! yummmyyy…xo. remember meeee!!!


- candace
Posted 01/16/08 07:34 AM
 
 

i agree she’s NOT interested in finding love, if that was the case she’d be going about it a differant way, this whole “show” is about making money, hence the reason she’s making a second season, who wants to bet that at the end of the second show she still will be single and in the process of making a third, its all about the money !


- dbomb
Posted 01/16/08 06:28 AM
 
 

Say the truth, this is business. When have you seen anyone on television stick with the person they chose. Of course this was to be expected. I would do it too. You are not really interested in LOVE you want fame. Love was right in your face (dany) and you let her slipped.


- erika
Posted 01/16/08 04:23 AM
 
 

don’t stress bobby.. you don’t need a man or woman to make you happy. true love can stick through anythign . so just keep searching you’ll find the one .. but you STILL SHOULDA PICKED DANI!!


- Katie H
Posted 01/15/08 11:13 PM
 
 

TILA FIRST I WANT TO SAY I LOVED UR SHOW AND WILL BE WATCHING THE NEXT SEASON. SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT U AND BOBBY BUT I STILL THINK THAT U SHOULD HAVE PICK DANI OF COARSE…..GOOD LUCK IN FINDING LOVE


- DANIELLE
Posted 01/15/08 10:05 PM
 
 

I loved the show…I still think you should have picked Dani….I think you should have her back on season two…I will definently watch it…


- Cynthia
Posted 01/15/08 09:01 PM
 
 

Why can’t I watch this????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


- LaLa
Posted 01/15/08 09:53 AM
 
 

tell Tila Tequila that love is not found on T.V…its found by the heart that one person meets anywhere in the world…doesn’t really matter where…just knowing that the feeling that the person had when they first meat
that’s all that matters…just knowning that person for a period of time…making sure he/she is the person that makes you complete no matter the problem is….that person is main one in ur life…hopefully tila tequila finds that one in her life…even tho its not me..honestly wish it wuz..bt still not me…my goal is to make sure she is happy…because dats all she deserves


- Carlos Martinez
Posted 01/15/08 04:11 AM
 
 

hey tila im bi sexual and im having problems beacuase people start bullying me and everything and i feel really bad and i need an advice from you to tell me wat should i do.i have no one to ask and your the only one


- robert
Posted 01/14/08 07:35 PM
 
 

hey tila well i sorry about Bobby but hey girl well u still got a chace to find love again but be careful with ur heart. well G2G laterz


- sophie
Posted 01/14/08 06:22 PM
 
 

Hey Tila, I have been all over on your page…just basically giving you advice..Tila caring for someone deeply is a chance..Bobby is still a person people…take it easy with the guy, he still have a life to life outside of all this…..something like this could cost someone elses life…Be careful folks..he as feelings too. I love Tila and all but it just didn’t work out in Tila’s favour…Their is a second chance at a shot at love for Tila…
Love u Tila


- Shernette
Posted 01/14/08 04:11 PM
 
 

these celebrity dating shows never work. why bother making them…


- Angie
Posted 01/14/08 03:15 PM
 
 

Sinlow


- Shannon
Posted 01/14/08 02:14 PM
 
 

hey tila i think you shouldve pickm dani and my sister says you are a discrase to the viet but i disagree i am also viet and i would love to meet you and be like you someday but just leave out the bisexualpart out


- julia
Posted 01/14/08 01:56 PM
 
 

I KNEW IT TILA!!! I BET U WISH U WOULD HAVE PICKED DANI, RIGHT?!?


- Alyda
Posted 01/14/08 01:47 PM
 
 

I am thinking maybe you should have Dani come and do the next show when it aires!!!


- Raquel
Posted 01/14/08 11:33 AM
 
 

your all losers for watching, do you hear her stupid laugh? she sounds like she did a little too much ACID!


- fuckface
Posted 01/14/08 11:00 AM
 
 

Hi Tila, it’s not my style to say I told u so, so I won’t…I knew Bobby’s pu*&y a&% would do this….he was so not right for u….I never liked him in the beginning….I knew that Dani would make you happy and I do understand why u didn’t pick her bc of her career, but I still would have chosen her over Bobby any day….Everyone was cheering for Dani and I was heart broken when u chose Bobby….I didn’t get it…I was disappointed in u bc I felt that u knew better and could see the big babby he is…Your life is too glamourous for him and guys can’t handle stress like women can(scientific fact) why do u think they are the one’s going around killing people and blowing up things…But I have forgiven you…For Bobby’s sake I hope I never see him, bc he would get an earful…I hope u find real love on the next season…Love u!!


- Quvonda
Posted 01/14/08 10:39 AM
 
 

Hey Tila!
I honestly wanted you to pick Dani.. I thought she was so HOTT! Wow.. I am bisexual myself.. But she was a wonderful person.. And I think that letting her go was a mistake! Hopefully you will find love in the 2nd season.. Good luck! Love.. Ciera!


- Ciera
Posted 01/14/08 12:56 AM
 

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