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January 11, 2008

Tila Tequila: The Real Reason Love Ended in Heartache

Tila Tequila, star of the hit MTV reality show "A Shot at Love," is speaking out to "Extra" about what really went down between she and the show's winner, Bobby Banhart.

Contrary to reports that Bobby wasn't able to contact Tila, she tells us, "We couldn't see each other for 2 months after (the finale), and we only talked on the phone. Just naturally, people kind of move on with their lives. We tried our best to keep in touch and keep it going, but after a while, all of this camera stuff, he just couldn't handle it."

How did the relationship end? "He called me a few days before New Years and broke it off! Why would he leave these?," Tila declared, pointing to her breasts.

As for the runner up, lesbian contestant Dani Campbell, Tila says, "I keep in touch, but I try not to keep in touch with everyone because I'm starting over. She's a great person and we're still friends."

A second season of "A Shot at Love" will be filming soon, and Tila admits, "I'm still looking for love. I don't want to go to clubs all the time, so we're gonna do it all over again."


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i think brandi shouldnt wear so much make up she looks like a drag queen.


- tammy
Posted 01/31/08 07:37 PM
 

idk w he left they were pefect for each other. i mean i even fell in love.i am happy she is making a new season. bobby made a bad dison


- maegan
Posted 01/31/08 04:23 PM
 

I personally think u should have gone wit Dani and i still think u should and in the new show if u must have another which it was a great show i think Dani should come back


- ALixandra
Posted 01/31/08 10:35 AM
 

well well tila… your a very unique and intriging individual.. I wish i knew where to sign up, for a shot at love… however I would love and preffer to just take you out.. were both in LA.. WERE BOTH ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE WITH BIG HEARTS AND open minds.. so it’s hard to find or leave you messages.. im your my space friend but you have so many and it seem;s like everyone just use’s your page for adds… you want REAL…IM real… bobby wasnt ready.. he is a little boy… I think you knew that.. well LOOK AT THE POSITIVE SIDE .. LESS TIME WASTED AND A NEW SHOW


- miranda
Posted 01/30/08 11:14 AM
 

Hey there Tila I’ve got to say bobby is a sucker. I think that every women deserves a good man. And he did seem good for you I guess at the time. But now I can see he is the same as every other guy sad but true. Girls are even worse, yall hit the heart every time especially when you get mad. You are too fine to have love problems get yourself a nerd and I bet that not only will he treat you good but you two together will make nuthing but progress. Oh I forgot to say make sure hes a black nerd so that if you ever get crazy one night that he wouldn’t try and kill you. That was my lame joke for now get well chica.


- Matthew
Posted 01/28/08 09:27 PM
 

I honestly think tila should give it a try with Dani, instead of doing another season. I mean don’t get me wrong, I loved the show, but he and Dani…you can just see how they clicked by the way they are together.


- Karmyn Ursaki
Posted 01/27/08 11:25 PM
 

HAH! shoulda chose DANI.


- your mom!
Posted 01/27/08 07:20 PM
 

U’ve been looking for love probably as much as i have…I see you as an angle of love sometimes…
I really wanna meet u soon, but I dont even know where you are
please contact me I wanna start chetting with you through email…
I got alot of interesting things to tell that i think you’fe like to hear…


- Daniel
Posted 01/27/08 02:15 PM
 

hey you don’t need bobby or danny you can have me you r so beautiful and i want to be your friend


- liltrouble09
Posted 01/27/08 12:02 PM
 

I hope Brandi dies.


- Anti - Brandi
Posted 01/27/08 04:44 AM
 

omfg i agree. bobby was so boss. he was hella hot too
they just werent meant to be.

so lay off!


- ldjfalskdj
Posted 01/27/08 01:29 AM
 

omg. ur all nutsss (:
i loved bobby. seriously. he was so adorable. i thot it was so cute when tila wanted to teach him things. (:


team bobby 4 lifee!


- team bobby (:
Posted 01/27/08 01:25 AM
 

hey i think you should have picked dani just because i wasnt there and bobby is a douche (no offense) so yea the show was great pick me for season two (not kidding. im awesome)


- jack
Posted 01/26/08 08:19 PM
 

Hey Tila Im like ur biggest fan! A shot at love with Tila tequila was fantastic, but I think that you should have picked dani because she was awesome.you should bring her back for season 2. I’m soooooo excited for season 2! I can’t wait to see who will be on tv this time! U rock,

Love,
Your biggest fan


- Birdy
Posted 01/26/08 12:04 PM
 

hey tila this is brandy i’m like one of your biggest fans. but anyways i think u should bring brandy back on the show i cried when she left. it was sad she was very hot and sweet i’m like that and i know how if feels when stuff like that happens. and keep your head up it will get better for u girl.sorry about bobby but he was stupid anyways. so best of love brandy xoxo


- Anonymous
Posted 01/25/08 11:45 PM
 

I’M GLAD U AND BOBBY SEPERATED,I WANT TO HAVE CHANCE AT U BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!


- Anonymous
Posted 01/25/08 10:06 PM
 

Hey, Tila! Well, I have to agree with most of these people. I can’t believe that you picked Bobbi over Danni. She really tried to win your love from the beginning, when you should have been the one trying to win hers all along. She didn’t play this fakeness that most of them played and she really tried to be real with you. I hope you’ve learned your leason this time, Fake people with drop you like your hot, and the one’s that really care will still be there when no one else is..Later Girl!


- Cara
Posted 01/25/08 09:21 PM
 

Hi my name is colt i live in guysville Ohio. And i think we would be great togather. trust me. so i would like to meet you. atleast call me somtime that ould be alsome My number is 17405410960
I think i would be the one . for fun i like to race dirtbikes. and mudrun my truck.and hang out in town so i hope i here from you. from colt


- Anonymous
Posted 01/25/08 06:57 PM
 

Don’t let Tila fool you. They were casting for a shot at love 2 when the first one had just started. She never had any intention of staying with the winner. Bobby says she dumped him and I believe him.


- Sue
Posted 01/25/08 01:43 AM
 

I am also a bisexual and I Have a girl just like Danny. I am sorry things did not work out with Bobby but you made a mistake with him. Danny would have made you happy just like my girl does everyday. We’ve been together for two years and counting…….Guys you can use and abuse but girls are forever!!!!


- kristen
Posted 01/24/08 11:15 PM

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