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January 4, 2008
Britney Spears Hospitalized
Britney Spears was taken out of her home via ambulance last night after reportedly refusing to hand her children over to Kevin Federline's bodyguard.
After more than an hour with the kids locked inside the house, police were called to the scene and found Britney to be "under the influence of an unknown substance." Paparazzi and local news crew cameras swarmed the gates of Spears' gated community, and snapped photos of a dazed Britney in the back of an ambulance.
Britney was then taken to Cedars-Sinai Medical Center and is being placed on a "medical hold."
Kevin Federline showed up to support his ex-wife as did Jamie Spears, Britney's father, and Sam Lufti, her constant companion.
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Arent you tired of counselors, psichologistes, and shrinks telling other people what to do,,? who are they to make judgment of other people´s feelings and problems that trouble others on everyday life. It`s the same effect if you find a thoughtfull friend who will listen ,a guiding parent, a caring school teacher, a loving and understanding spouse or a bum that will be willing to listen to your problems,and do just do that, just like a good therapist would do,, just listen for a while, without judgements. Most of us have gotten so dependable on someone else´s approval just to get some attention and recoginition for a bit of love and respect, that some people take it to far and exchange what little has been given to us in life in return for a small sensation of being accepted and to become, somewhere along the line a part of something, a family or group. If you are just sitting there making judgement of spears then, you are not probably an understanding but more of a rational person and in need of evidence, instead of experience, so If you are more of an active and responsible parent, then youll probably know whats going on here.. sheer greed… It is well known for therapists, that people who sue and persue or acuse others in these settings have to be evaluated, like mr fed should. Victims of psychological violence often behave like Britney, and her “erratic” behaviour looks more like depresion derived from fear, just like people who recover from kidnappings do, or those who have been tortured physically or mentally. Most of the times psichological violence is hard to pinpoint, but nowadays it is used by those are the aggresors in courthouses. Victims take long to come to the light and make public their fate, it´s embarrasing also. So, make your own balance,, and if you know someone who knows someone.. etc that knows this girl,, it would be a mothers gift to hear that so many are supportive and understand that being a mother is difficult, and you dont learn being a parent just because you have kids.. Being a parent is a commitment that takes time, and being all over this woman isnt making it very easy for her, with all the blows in her personal life that she has probably taken. A lot of people out there get married 3 or 4 times, and nothing happens, simply because , we never find out because they are not celebs with paparazzis and circus clowns around their families. Or mediocre and sadistic egocentric guys like DR Phill, who only want to get some more spotlight to get his ratings up, or basically,,maybe it means that he didnt have a mother…! Its obvious that this character made a hard blow at her when she was down, and identifies himself with the ex-husband, because he probably is like him. Most of us take sides, but in this case, like many other legal nationwide plaintiffs, we need to be more human, intelligent and comprehensive, that the mere simplystic approach of settling for the easiest conclusion, and that is , repeating what the media say,..! This could happen to any of us. And that is the beggining of true maturity and happines for all, and specially those who need help. Like britney, she does need help. but not getting comitted or hospitalized,, but more support and goodwill, and the best therapy for a mother is to be with her children, not separated from them. Ask a mother she´ll tell you.. by the way, im a man, my son is not with me, but i wouldnt dare of taking my son away from his mom, even though i suffer, i call everyday and try to have him with me whenever i can, but most of all i try to be updated and supportive with my ex, even though she dumped me, my responsability is with my son, and if his mom is ok,. that means that he´s ok too,,! basically one tries to never lose touch. What would i gain if i did what k-fed is doing unless my ex wife had money that is, absolutely nothing, If i hated my ex wife or wanted to get some benefit i would probably drive her crazy sending my chauffer to pick my son up, instead if going there and pick him myself, I know that doing that would drive her nuts, and then i would just claim an allowance.
Britney, youll climb out of this one, believe in yourself and hang in there.