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July 20, 2007

Tammy Faye's Dying Wish Revealed


Emaciated and struggling to speak, Tammy Faye Messner’s warrior spirit and insurmountable courage could still be seen during her emotional interview with Larry King.

Though Tammy admitted to Larry that she’s bedridden most of the time, she was still able to smile for the cameras and bat those trademark lashes.

Even her husband Roe can’t believe the way she’s handling her life and death battle.

“We make it good, don’t we honey?” Roe said to his wife through laughter.

Tammy is battling inoperable lung cancer. She’s down to 65 pounds, and her days could be limited. Though she said she’s still scared, she’s confident about where she’s going.

“I’m going straight to heaven,” she said, happily.

Poignantly, Tammy told Larry one of her last wishes.

“I still want to be cremated,” she said.

Now, only “Extra” has one of Tammy’s friends speaking out about her ordeal.

Ron Jeremy, who starred with Tammy on “The Surreal Life” and grew close with her during that time, is in shock at his friend’s frail state.

“Seeing her last night was very painful,” Ron said. “You get choked up.”

Still, Ron isn’t surprised to see her fighting spirit pushing through the pain.

“She told me two weeks ago she was shopping for shoes,” he said of Tammy’s incredible will to live.

Now, Ron is breaking news to “Extra,” revealing that the woman with whom Tammy's ex-husband Jim Baker cheated is speaking out.

Jessica Hahn has reached out to Tammy, calling her on the phone and pleading, “Please don’t go. The world needs you right now.”

Still, Tammy said she has not heard directly from her ex-husband, saying only, “God’s going to do it.”

Today, while speaking to a small crowd, the disgraced televangelist said on his webcast, “I feel such a heaviness.”

Tammy’s son, pastor Jay Baker, said his father’s thoughts are with his dying ex-wife.

“He always tells me how he’s praying for Mom, and thinking about her,” Jay said.

Tammy, even in what could be her last days, is thinking about more than just her fate – she’s managing to reach out to the world.

“I’d like to say I genuinely care,” she said. “I want you to find peace. I want you to find joy.”

Keep sending your messages to Tammy Faye. Post your comments here.



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Tammy,

We love you Tammy!!
We are so much richer for having
you in our lives.
You music, your ministry, your life has brought
us closer to the Lord.

We will see you in heaven!


Oceans of Love,
Linda


- Linda Alexander
Posted 07/20/07 04:51 PM
 

Tammy
May God keep you from pain. I am a mom with a son who had cancer and my mom who past on from cancer. I have watched you for a long time and I am sorry that there were such mean people in this world who treared you mean in any way. God bless your journey as you leave us to meet our savior and have a happy forever. I wish you could write back to tell us what its like. Hope we meet sometime in the future. Say hi to my mom when you see her. God bless you and I hope your loved ones are close to you now. I wish we knew each other so I could be there to help you. Seems like you have a pretty good man that is taking care of you.


- Mary Candlish
Posted 07/20/07 04:50 PM
 

Dear Tammy,

You are indeed an inspiration. Your strength and courage are encouraging, and you are a complete person for it. Keep up your genuine spirit.
Remember, God loves you, and so do we!

God Bless You
William


- William in Nova Scotia, Canada
Posted 07/20/07 04:49 PM
 

TAMMY I HOPE THAT GOD WILL TAKE YOU IN HIS ARMS AND TAKE YOU HOME. FOR YOU DESERVE TO BE WITH HIM. I WILL PRAY THAT GOD WILL GIVE YOU THE STRENGHTH AND WILL TO BEAT THIS CANCER. BUT.. IF THE LORD IS READY FOR YOU THEN IT IS YOUR TIME TO GO. GOD ONLY KNOWS WHEN HE IS READY FOR YOU. AND I KNOW THAT YOU ARE READY TO MEET OUR GOD. MAY GOD WACTH OVER YOU.


LOVE, LYNN


- LYNN VANDERWALKER
Posted 07/20/07 04:49 PM
 

Dear Tammy you are an inspiration and your courage is bountiful you have touch thje hearts of so many and my prayers are with you and your family.take care and God is looking down on you God Bless Rosemary


- Rosemary Karrer
Posted 07/20/07 04:48 PM
 

Dear Tammy Faye

You are an excellent example of courage and faith. You are a great inspiration and just wanted you to know that you are loved and you are love by the examples you have set for so many people. Thank you so much for your dedication to the almighty

You are in my prayers.

God Bless you,

Love
Michael


- Michael
Posted 07/20/07 04:47 PM
 

Tammy,
God bless you, I enjoyed all your singing on PTL! I hope God will heal you, its never too late, but if he chooses to take you, I will see you when its my time to go. I love you! You are a beautiful person inside and out! Say hello to my son, Doug, who passed November 16, 2005!
I admire your courage, I am going for a Colonoscopy, next month, hope everything turns out fine! Pray for me, I will pray for you!
Jeanie


- Jeanne
Posted 07/20/07 04:46 PM
 

Dear Tammy Fay. I Admire Your Strenth and Your Inner Faith What an Inspration You Are To ME And The World.God Bless You Tammie You are in My Daily Thoughts and Prayers.I Loved Watching you Back in the Day and Hearing You Sing I Have Always Loved Watching You and the Great Message you Always Had Again God Bless You Tammie Fay.


- Debbie Andrews
Posted 07/20/07 04:46 PM
 

I am a 47yr old from jax fla, I am so glad jesus never leaves us. Some of us leave him at times. And then struggle to go back’ Tammy is so strong,knowing she is gonna be with jesus, I think helps alot’ I love you Tammy and see you in HEAVEN. PS, Tell jesus i will see him soon’


- Bonnie Hatcher jax, Fla
Posted 07/20/07 04:44 PM
 

I`M SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT YOU ARE SO Very SICK I KNOW GOD HAS A PLACE FOR US ALL I WISH YOU PEACE AND LOVE AND THE LORD WELCOMES YOU WITH OPENED ARMS WE ARE NEVER ALONE WHEN WE HAVE THE LORD IN OUR LIVES NO MATTER WHAT HE IS ALWAYS WITH US I KNOW HE IS WITH YOU NOW NEVER FORGET WE LOVE YOU :)


- Gayla
Posted 07/20/07 04:43 PM
 

tammy,i watched you on larry king last night,my heart broke but at the same time your words are very powerful,i am fighting,copd/asthma and many other things and i get so depressed and i dont feel like i can share it with anyone, but you made me see last night i need to trust in god more and myself,and to you i promise i am going to give it a shot,you have helped so many people,i pray your journey to meet our lord will be wonderful,much love tammy,a new friend sharon


- sharon
Posted 07/20/07 04:40 PM
 

Tammy Fay
I admire your strength on how you are dealing with your cancer.You are bautiful both outside and inside. I have you in my prayers. God bless you.


- Andrea King
Posted 07/20/07 04:36 PM
 

bless you. You are an inspiration. we hope that your days are filled with love, family, and humor.


- Debbie
Posted 07/20/07 04:34 PM
 

Tammy, As I struggle to find the right words, ultlimately, what remains is our story. In the end it’s the only thing we really own. Your story has been one of encouragement,faith,honesty and compassion for all. The door will never close on your story. May God Bless You.


- Nikki W
Posted 07/20/07 04:33 PM
 

Dear Tammy and family

We love you and God Bless you. God is able to keep you and yours in this trying time. My prayers are with you.

In Gods love,
Sister Gwen Green


- Gwen dolyn Green
Posted 07/20/07 04:27 PM
 

i pray for peace for you, and your family, and i want you to know how much people love you because i think a lot of people leave this earth without a clue as to how much they mean to other people. your strengh and your courage is a shining example to all! may God intervene for you and make the rest of your life pain free and filled with his peace.


- jennie
Posted 07/20/07 04:27 PM
 

Dear Tammy and family

We love you and God Bless you. God is able to keep you and yours in this trying time. My prayers are with you.

In Gods love,
Sister Gwen Green


- Gwen dolyn Green
Posted 07/20/07 04:27 PM
 

Dear Tammy Faye,
I admire your strength and courage. You have made me a stronger person. I believe you are a sincere person and you love the Lord. I wish you well and I pray for you everyday. What better place to be than with Jesus! Take care Tammy, and may God bless you!


- Carolyn
Posted 07/20/07 04:24 PM
 

Tammy Faye, Jesus loves you so much and so do I. I am praying for you and your family. Thank you for showing the world how godly people should act. You are an inspiration. You make me want to do so much more with my life. God’s love is so beautiful and amazing. Thank you for showing us God’s love. I love you. You are so beautiful. God bless you.


- Felicia Firewick
Posted 07/20/07 04:23 PM
 

Dear Tammy Faye:
I am praying for you dear, You will be meeing our Lord one day soon, and I know you will be whole again, I know you love our Lord, and God Bless you, for you have been a wonderful Christian, and a pilar of hope for some.
Evone


- Evone
Posted 07/20/07 04:23 PM

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