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July 20, 2007

Tammy Faye's Dying Wish Revealed


Emaciated and struggling to speak, Tammy Faye Messner’s warrior spirit and insurmountable courage could still be seen during her emotional interview with Larry King.

Though Tammy admitted to Larry that she’s bedridden most of the time, she was still able to smile for the cameras and bat those trademark lashes.

Even her husband Roe can’t believe the way she’s handling her life and death battle.

“We make it good, don’t we honey?” Roe said to his wife through laughter.

Tammy is battling inoperable lung cancer. She’s down to 65 pounds, and her days could be limited. Though she said she’s still scared, she’s confident about where she’s going.

“I’m going straight to heaven,” she said, happily.

Poignantly, Tammy told Larry one of her last wishes.

“I still want to be cremated,” she said.

Now, only “Extra” has one of Tammy’s friends speaking out about her ordeal.

Ron Jeremy, who starred with Tammy on “The Surreal Life” and grew close with her during that time, is in shock at his friend’s frail state.

“Seeing her last night was very painful,” Ron said. “You get choked up.”

Still, Ron isn’t surprised to see her fighting spirit pushing through the pain.

“She told me two weeks ago she was shopping for shoes,” he said of Tammy’s incredible will to live.

Now, Ron is breaking news to “Extra,” revealing that the woman with whom Tammy's ex-husband Jim Baker cheated is speaking out.

Jessica Hahn has reached out to Tammy, calling her on the phone and pleading, “Please don’t go. The world needs you right now.”

Still, Tammy said she has not heard directly from her ex-husband, saying only, “God’s going to do it.”

Today, while speaking to a small crowd, the disgraced televangelist said on his webcast, “I feel such a heaviness.”

Tammy’s son, pastor Jay Baker, said his father’s thoughts are with his dying ex-wife.

“He always tells me how he’s praying for Mom, and thinking about her,” Jay said.

Tammy, even in what could be her last days, is thinking about more than just her fate – she’s managing to reach out to the world.

“I’d like to say I genuinely care,” she said. “I want you to find peace. I want you to find joy.”

Keep sending your messages to Tammy Faye. Post your comments here.



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Tammy you are a wonderful and couragious woman may God be with you always,God Bless.and to the person named Larry may God have mercy on your soul to have a forgiving heart.


- Ron Trigeros
Posted 07/20/07 07:30 PM
 

I’ve been amazed and inspired throughout the years at the grace with which you continue to live. I send you love and continue to keep high thoughts for you.


- Lynn
Posted 07/20/07 07:27 PM
 

Dearest Tammy,

You are an inspiration to all! Your sweet spirit and the Love of God shows through you. You are very beautiful inside/out and I pray that the Lord will continue to comfort you and give you his peace. Love you!

CS


- Charmaine
Posted 07/20/07 07:24 PM
 

GOD bless Tammy she a fighter!!!!


- William Stapleton
Posted 07/20/07 07:20 PM
 

Dear Tammy, There may still be hope? Tubercin is the drug. www.artec-inc.net The drug has been used in S.Korea for over 19 years. They have cured 40% of level four cancers.Dr.Shinn is the president of ATKJ.PK. Hes at 916-428-3458,or 916-730-1691,or Gerry Knight at 405-949-1808.Check out the web page. Dr.Shinn,or Mr.Knight will get you treatment in S.Korea,or somewhere else. I know they will. Call them direct,and try it. What do you have to loose? Stock symbol is atkj.pk. This drug will save millions.I wish you the best. Sincerly, Glenn Neasham


- Glenn Neasham
Posted 07/20/07 07:18 PM
 

My prayers are with you and your family Tammy. You are a testament to strength and faith in our Lord. You will definitely be welcomed into His arms!


- Maria
Posted 07/20/07 07:17 PM
 

YOU ARE THE BRAVEST WOMAN OUT THERE! I WANT YOU TO KNOW I AM PRAYING FOR YOU AND SO ARE MANY OTHERS. YOU’VE TOUCHED THIS WORLD. YOU’VE TOUCHED ME. GOD BLESS YOU TAMMY! I LOVE YOU!!! YOU ARE SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO EVERYONE STRUGGLING


- DESIREE
Posted 07/20/07 07:16 PM
 

YOU ARE THE BRAVEST WOMAN OUT THERE! I WANT YOU TO KNOW I AM PRAYING FOR YOU AND SO ARE MANY OTHERS. YOU’VE TOUCHED THIS WORLD. YOU’VE TOUCHED ME. GOD BLESS YOU TAMMY! I LOVE YOU!!! YOU ARE SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO EVERYONE STRUGGLING


- DESIREE
Posted 07/20/07 07:16 PM
 

Tammy Faye, I don’t leave the house without my mascara either! I’d like to share one of my favorite poems with you by Helen Steiner Rice. God be with you and give you strength.

A Bend In The Road

When we feel we have nothing left to give and we are sure that the song has ended,
When our day seems over and the shadows fall and the darkness of night has descended,

Where can we go to find the strength to valiantly keep on trying?
Where can we find the hand that will dry the tears that the heart is crying?

There’s but one place to go and that is to God,
and dropping all pretense and pride,
We can pour out our problems without restraint and gain strength with Him at our side.

And together we stand at life’s crossroads and view what we think is the end,
But God has a much bigger vision,
and He tells us it’s only a bend,

For the road goes on and is smoother,
and the pause in the song is a rest,
And the part that’s unsung and unfinished is the sweetest and richest and best.

So rest and relax and grow stronger -
let go and let God share your load.
Your work is not finished or ended -
you’ve just come to a bend in the road.

© Helen Steiner Rice


- Johnetta
Posted 07/20/07 07:13 PM
 

god bless you tammy…….stay stong. you are a beautiful person. with love alicia


- alicia
Posted 07/20/07 07:11 PM
 

Tammy,
You are truly a fighter and deserve to have God come and escort you to heaven; and to take away your pain and misery. The good is coming and I know you believe it.


- Dennis
Posted 07/20/07 07:10 PM
 

God Bless You Tammy! You are a remarkable
woman, and such an inspiration to us all.
I only hope and pray that when my time comes I will be as strong as you.
Your still as pretty as ever, just a little thinner.

You are in our thoughts and prayers, as well as your family and friends.

Love to you.

Alice in Seattle


- Alice
Posted 07/20/07 07:08 PM
 

You are one of a kind and such a wonderful woman, hang in there, you know God is there for you Bonnie


- bonnie
Posted 07/20/07 07:08 PM
 

We love you Tammy. God Bless


- JrI
Posted 07/20/07 07:07 PM
 

Tammy, You are a remarkable woman I wish I could meet you. You are a true inspiration to many people all over the world. I saw you on Larry King and your attitude and humor was so inspiring. Not many paople can be that way but with Jesus on your side everything seems better. I hope you get well the world needs you and more like you. Take care Tammy. Kathy Vorderbruggen Overland Park, Ks


- Kathy
Posted 07/20/07 06:55 PM
 

Dear Tammy,

What an inspiration you are to all of us! I hope you know you are sharing such a testimony during this time when you could have just given up. Your Faith in God is steadfast. There is a special place in Heaven for you! I’m sure you have touched more lives than you will ever know.

You are in my thoughts and prayers!

God Bless You!
Dee


- Dee
Posted 07/20/07 06:50 PM
 

Anyone that can handle this with a smile and a sense of humor is an amazing person. The world will miss you and that beautiful smile.


- Stacey
Posted 07/20/07 06:50 PM
 

Dear Tammy: I didn’t know much about you until I saw you on The Surreal Life. I was totally blown away with how you managed to keep Jesus in your life under such conditions. I hope that I can be as strong as you are you are truly an inspiration. I know you will have a very special place in heaven, when your time comes. You will be in my prayers and God bless you.


- Judy
Posted 07/20/07 06:48 PM
 

Tammy, My heart was so touched by your wisdom in the surreal life. You never once gave up your faith for the popular thing to do. You still loved those around you who weren’t following your beliefs—a true sign of a Christian. You said in one episode that it is okay to let go of baggage. That one statement struck such a chord in me. Know that when you go to heaven, your legacy will remain, your love will remain, and I hope you know that with that, this world is a better place. Until we meet-
In Christ,
Nikki


- Nikki
Posted 07/20/07 06:41 PM
 

I don’t wish anyone bad luck but you morons seem to forget all the damage this woman and her ex did thru the PTL club…they ripped off thousands of people and millions of dollars…Extra and the rest of these idiots who are kissing her butt need to wake up…I doubt if she will ever see heaven…maybe with some good binocculars!


- Larry
Posted 07/20/07 06:40 PM

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