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July 20, 2007

Tammy Faye's Dying Wish Revealed


Emaciated and struggling to speak, Tammy Faye Messner’s warrior spirit and insurmountable courage could still be seen during her emotional interview with Larry King.

Though Tammy admitted to Larry that she’s bedridden most of the time, she was still able to smile for the cameras and bat those trademark lashes.

Even her husband Roe can’t believe the way she’s handling her life and death battle.

“We make it good, don’t we honey?” Roe said to his wife through laughter.

Tammy is battling inoperable lung cancer. She’s down to 65 pounds, and her days could be limited. Though she said she’s still scared, she’s confident about where she’s going.

“I’m going straight to heaven,” she said, happily.

Poignantly, Tammy told Larry one of her last wishes.

“I still want to be cremated,” she said.

Now, only “Extra” has one of Tammy’s friends speaking out about her ordeal.

Ron Jeremy, who starred with Tammy on “The Surreal Life” and grew close with her during that time, is in shock at his friend’s frail state.

“Seeing her last night was very painful,” Ron said. “You get choked up.”

Still, Ron isn’t surprised to see her fighting spirit pushing through the pain.

“She told me two weeks ago she was shopping for shoes,” he said of Tammy’s incredible will to live.

Now, Ron is breaking news to “Extra,” revealing that the woman with whom Tammy's ex-husband Jim Baker cheated is speaking out.

Jessica Hahn has reached out to Tammy, calling her on the phone and pleading, “Please don’t go. The world needs you right now.”

Still, Tammy said she has not heard directly from her ex-husband, saying only, “God’s going to do it.”

Today, while speaking to a small crowd, the disgraced televangelist said on his webcast, “I feel such a heaviness.”

Tammy’s son, pastor Jay Baker, said his father’s thoughts are with his dying ex-wife.

“He always tells me how he’s praying for Mom, and thinking about her,” Jay said.

Tammy, even in what could be her last days, is thinking about more than just her fate – she’s managing to reach out to the world.

“I’d like to say I genuinely care,” she said. “I want you to find peace. I want you to find joy.”

Keep sending your messages to Tammy Faye. Post your comments here.



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Now she belongs to the angels. May the Lord bless you and keep you Tammy Faye. May the Lord make His face to shine upon you and be gracious unto you. Your song Don’t Give Up is why I’m alive today. Thank you so much for singing it to me when I needed encouragement the most. You helped a lot of hurting people. Because of that song, I’m alive today. Had I not listened to it, and stayed with my sister. I would have been dead that night too. This beautiful soul named Tammy Faye Messner sang a song that has forever changed my life. TY




- Anonymous
Posted 10/31/08 10:43 AM
 

One great lady, mascara make-up and all
that was just Tammy Faye. What a wonderful Christian and a true child of God. Always a smile and a happy heart filled with the love of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,forgiving others and holding out a hand to lead us to the Lord What a beautiful woman a loving mother and a friend to all. Honest and faithful to the end.
This woman was class all the way We will miss you Tammy be with our Lord and look down on all of us and smile your beautiful smile and let all of us learn grace and forgiveness as you have shown to all.We will miss you.


- Eddie
Posted 08/21/07 04:49 PM
 

as a small child i remember ptl and my mother that use to have your cassetes and i have had some terrible times and when i just cant take it i remember the song dont give up and it gives me strength you will be greatly missed and you were such spiritrual help to everyone

hopefully you are sitting by the lord while he sits on his throne


- andre
Posted 08/10/07 08:26 PM
 

You were a great person that cared so much and show us that no matter what to keep our faith and for that i thank you so much.God bless you and i know you are now with the lord,thank you for letting us get close to you by doing the interview you wanted us to be part of your life and for that we will be forever gratefull.Love you Tammy hugs and kisses to you.xoxoxo


- LISA
Posted 07/30/07 03:18 PM
 

The joy of the lord is our strength and Tammy Faye was a good example of this and a inspiration to many.

Blessings to her husband and family.


- Carmen Hall
Posted 07/23/07 09:10 PM
 

God bless you Tammy Faye you were an inspiration for the world, even before you became ill.
With lots of love,
Mary E. Kitchen


- Mary Kitchen
Posted 07/23/07 06:56 PM
 

I think many of us will miss our little glimpses of Tammy here and there. She is a true Christian, not being in judgement of others and accepting of who people truly are. I think my most memorable thing about Tammy is how she was totally accepting of Ron Jeremy on the Surreal Life and how she gave thanks to all the gay community for being there for her and her family during some difficult times when everyone else pointed fingers and gossiped. She is a true example of the graciousness that humanity needs.
You are truly home and will be missed.
May you rest in peace.


- Val
Posted 07/23/07 06:47 PM
 

Tammy you were a trooper. A light to the rest that suffer from cancer. I hope Tubercin can help others. S.Korea has had success with this drug saving lives for over 18 years.Curing 40% of those that should of been gone long ago. Look into it for you all that suffer. www.artec-inc.net. Traded under symbol atkj.pk. This drug Tubercin can save millions of lives. Its time to introduce it to “THE WORLD”.Why hasnt a large USA drug company looked into this drug if it really works? Why? Why hasnt the FDA taken a look. Is it about money to all the greedy suckers, they dont want a cure,or what.Obviously if Tubercin works we all should know about it right? Call the company president at 916-428-3458 Dr.Shinn,or contact Gerry Knight at 405-949-1808 VP. Go to www.artec-inc.net to learn more about how Tubercin can save your lives.Thankyou… And may you Tammy rest in peace….


- Glenn
Posted 07/22/07 02:24 PM
 

Tammy is a beacon of hope and a sorce of strenth for the world.
Few could withstand the pain and agony she was enduring as she spoke to us on Larry King’s show.
She was trying to tell us something!
Wake up people get your lives in order.

We love you Tammy, We will pray for your family, it is so hard for them I am sure right now.
Take comfort in the fact, Tammy is not in pain any longer and she will see you in heaven.

Linda M


- linda Manning
Posted 07/22/07 12:03 PM
 

We have lost a gift. I feel better knowing she’s up there on our side though. Now Heaven is even more beautiful.


- Steven
Posted 07/22/07 02:02 AM
 

The world has lost a wonderful angel but she is finally at peace after a hard life. She will be rewarded HUGE when she goes ‘straight to heaven’. You will surely be missed!!

We love you Tammy


- Olivia
Posted 07/22/07 12:39 AM
 

Our deepest condolences are with you all. We know what it is to lose a loved one close to you, and how it hurts. Our love and prayers go with the family.


- Rosa
Posted 07/21/07 11:32 PM
 

Tammy, you are a truly inspirational and strong person. We will all miss you. Rest in peace


- Julie
Posted 07/21/07 10:34 PM
 

She died yesterday… very sad.

i am happy she had her last interview though!!! lets everyone see what spirit she had!!


may she rest in piece!!


- Sara
Posted 07/21/07 10:14 PM
 

Tammy,
You are more than a conqueror.Godspeed
Isabel


- Isabel
Posted 07/21/07 09:35 PM
 

To Tammy’s family,

I watched CNN tonight for the full hour and cried my eyes out. I will miss Tammy and never forget the love and kindness that she showed to everyone. After all that she has been through there was no bitterness or judging and that is beautiful. Tammy Sue and Jamie Charles you are so blessed to have had such a wonderful and loving Mother. Tammy Sue I hope you find your spot in show business and Jaime you are doing a wonderful work for Jesus Christ.You both are awesome and I will pray for you always. God bless you! Sarah


- Sarah
Posted 07/21/07 09:10 PM
 

I am a registered nurse and have assisted individuals with their passing. I have to say that I have been moved beyond expectation in your poise and in your mere presence. I wish you godspeed and know that you are in a better place. Please look down on us and shine your everlasting light. You are such an inspiration!


- Rebecca Patterson
Posted 07/21/07 08:26 PM
 

Tammy,

You are amazing, I’ve watched you off and on for years and you never cease to amaze me in how you have carried yourself. Thank you for your courage, strength and love of God and people… thank you. God has created a miracle in you and I thank God for you. Everthing you’ve done in your life time has been the right thing and they have touched many regardless of what some may think. God has place you here for his purpose and you’ve been an inspiration to the world… you will not be forgotten. We love you and will see you in Heaven, help prepare a place for us.


- Rick
Posted 07/21/07 07:51 PM
 

Sweet precious saint of God! I know that you are whole and at peace now. My genuine interest and prayers are for your beloved family. L. Holder


- Lynn Holder
Posted 07/21/07 07:48 PM
 

When you get to the end of your journey, please remember us, we that do not know the one that gives you this strength.


- Joi
Posted 07/21/07 07:19 PM

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