May 31, 2007

Lohan's Mom: Don't Judge Me As A Parent

After 20-year-old Lindsay Lohan entered rehab for the second time, many concerned friends and fans wondered about the influences in her life.

Alarmed fans demanded to know who might be enabling the underage star to get into nightclubs and continue her hard-partying ways, despite past hospitalizations for exhaustion and her recent arrest for DUI.

Speculation over Lindsay’s well-being even prompted “The View” guest-host Whoopi Goldberg to ask, “Where are the adults?”

The Lohan family – in particular Lindsay’s mom Dina – drew an onslaught of criticism after she reportedly told several news outlets that Lindsay was just a young girl who “needed to be reeled in.”

Now “Extra” is putting Dina herself in the hot seat as she answers questions about what she calls “a bad press year with personal situations.”

“They’re kids,” explained Dina about her daughter. “She’s growing up.”

In response to suggestions that she’s been spending more time partying with Lindsay than parenting her, Dina told us, “Don’t believe what you read.”

As for those who say she pushes Lindsay and the rest of her kids too hard, Dina insisted, “I always tell her take a break, don't work. She's like, 'Mommy, I love what I do.'”

Lindsay may soon be in for a little tough love from her estranged father Michael, who recently finished jail time and has his own DUI under his belt.

Michael is worried for his daughter, explaining, “She's not just the goose that laid the golden egg. She's a child, a human being.”

Michael – whom Dina once filed a restraining order against – is now reportedly reaching out to his ex-wife, hoping the two can put their differences aside long enough to help their troubled daughter.

“I just wish that Dina, her mother, would get on the same page with me so that we both can be there as parents that Lindsay needs,” Michael said.

Kevin Federline’s ex Shar Jackson, who has been in show business since the tender age of 3, told “Extra” all about the pitfalls of showbiz moms-turned-managers like Dina.

“They stop being parents and start being employees,” Shar explained. “They're scared to tell their kids ‘no’ because they're like, ‘Oh God, they're going to cut me off, or they're not going to pay my bills this month.’”

For now, Lindsay’s relationship with her parents is second to her stay in Promises.


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On 16 Jun 2007, thank god I have a GOOD MOTHER wrote:

WHAT? Did Dina Lohan say “they’re just kids…they’re growing up”? Maybe SHE needs to grow up. I’m 24, and I grew up. I don’t get drunk and pass out in bars… I don’t get out of cars showing all my ‘business’ to everyone. I can’t believe people on here are saying she is a good mother! A good mother doesn’t let their underage daughter go out and drink, and she certainly doesn’t JOIN IN. Dina, your a MOTHER, maybe you need to reel it in…yes?

 
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On 5 Jun 2007, Elaine Miller wrote:

well, not much to add to these comments except that lindsay do you really want to go and keep paris company in jail? Keep up your behavior and you will be sitting there in your cell pondering where did i go wrong. Not a pretty picture you passed out in that car, been there, not worth the moment. Life is short, can’t blame others for where we end up and Lindsay is 20 and time to stand on her own 2 feet and not on her back passed out. Can’t blame the mom or dad, they have their own lives to live, she will do as she pleases and I sincerely hope she gets a handle on this situation or one day she may not wake up, literally. If these young girls can’t handle the world of limelight they should stay out of it and quit being menaces on the roads and highways. Imagine a child of your own or someone dear to you being killed by a drunk driver,, smarten up you girls, who do you think you are? And our legal system, another joke that is. They need the smack on the hands they hand out to celebs and young offenders.

 
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On 5 Jun 2007, Mommy too wrote:

Well put Jan, Anonymous and all concerned parties! This message SHOULD be emphasized to all child-actor parents out there. This industry and some unfortunate influences definitely has the potential to devour the best out of our precious little ones who grow to be adults too fast, get rich too soon… We should all look out after our young talents, but there are no better protectors out there than ourselves as “responsible” parents. Discipline and true tough love, parents, are the best gifts we can leave off to our children. Inheritance and fame: Millions
Love, discipline, morals, values: Priceless

 
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On 5 Jun 2007, Jan wrote:

Lindsey should start listening to her Dad. He obviously has learned his lesson and is showing more concern about her as a parent than her mother does. A lot of young actors/actresses have stepped away from their parents because of the money/support issues. Look at Macauley Caulkin, Gary Coleman,
the Carter boys etc. Lindsey is caught up in needing drama in her life 24/7 and trying to act like an adult by playing adult games but she is still an immature, lost, insecure young girl. If I were Dina, I would do anything to help my daughter get help and stay with her constantly until she has realized she doesn’t need to behave in this manner to get attention and begins living a clean and sober life. Lindsey needs to get rid of the “yes” friends who lie to her and tell her want she wants to hear while at the same time helping her to score drugs and encourage her to go out to clubs. These aren’t REAL friends. It might be lonely for a while but true, honest friends are worth waiting for and will never let you look like an ass just for the sake of benefiting from your celebrity.

 
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On 4 Jun 2007, Anonymous wrote:

Dina is not a good mother. She needs to be a mother, not a party buddy. This situration should of been under control years ago not just now. This has been happening for years. Be a mommy Dina.

 
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On 4 Jun 2007, Tinkerbell wrote:

Why are you blaming the mother Lindsey is 20 years olds a legal adult her mother has no control over what she does anymore maybe when she was younger but NOW Linsey needs to grow up and be responsible for her own actions her mom doesnt tell go out get smashed and lit and act like an idiot she does that on her own and hopefully rehab will help her this time figure it out and she will stay clean and sober this time around before its to late……….

 
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On 4 Jun 2007, Anonymous wrote:

Every child is a mirror to their parent or guardian!!! Dina, your child is beautiful and very talented… take good care of her. She needs someone to set boundaries for her… and you, as her mother, should be one to set that example. She grew up too fast and too soon… now it’s up to you to make things right. Better late than never!!!

 
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On 4 Jun 2007, Anonymous wrote:

When you see pictures of Mom and daughter partying - well - pictures don’t lie.

 
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On 4 Jun 2007, Anonymous wrote:

When you see pictures of Mom and daughter partying - well - pictures don’t lie.

 
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On 1 Jun 2007, angie wrote:

wow you people are just terrible! Dina seems like a wonderful mother what do you want her to do what kind of mother would come out in public and start saying hey guess what lindsay is a terrible druggie or what? Dina is a good mother and a good parent, she can’t be blamed for all of lindsay’s problems blame hollywood and the friends she hangs out with!! her mom obviousely tries what more can she do? Dina i think you’re a good mother!!! don’t listen to all this people who have obviousely never dealt with someone with drug and alcohol problems.

 
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On 1 Jun 2007, Pam wrote:

Why would ANYONE judge you as a MOTHER?
A mother cares about her child, and would make her CHILD the priority no matter what. You are a selfish, trashy, sleeze who obviously doesn’t want to grow up, and only cares about money and appearance. Neither is more important than family, especially your own child.

 
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On 1 Jun 2007, catiiss wrote:

Dina!!!! I am a parent also to a just turn 21 year old boy. He was consider an adult since he was 18. And yes he does work full time and goes to college full time. When i saw what you said i told my son if we were in your position…i would say HEY SON you might want to fire me, but, YOU CAN’T FIRE ME AS YOUR MOM. So, quit drinking and acting like a dumb fool…BE THE MOM!!!!! If not she could end up like anna nicole smith..would that be better than being fired?????

 
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On 1 Jun 2007, venus wrote:

The culprit here is Mommy Lohan,shes not doin any good to lindsays career inside shes makin her daughters life as miserable as her’s. Have a life Mom, dont push ur kids to d limit, have a consience and guilt. If u cnt be a gud parent to ur children better live them alone they might have better uture thatn staying wd u dumb mom. U r a lazy mom and a user u used lindsay for ur own happiness. For her daughter shes d victim here, but im not telling she did d right thin cuz shes not anymore a teen shes an adult and she shud be responsible wd her own actions .. will its bttr u get help

 
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