Kim Basinger Fires Back at Alec Baldwin

Alec Baldwin’s ex Kim Basinger is finally firing back, publicly addressing the now infamous voicemail that Alec left their daughter, Ireland.

In a statement to “Extra,” Kim made it known that she wants Alec to “finally address his unstable and irrational behavior.”

Basinger also claimed she “did not release the voicemail,” but pointed out, “The voicemail was not sealed under a court order.”

As the already ugly divorce gets uglier, “Extra” sought the observation of David Crausman, director of clinical psychotherapy at LA.’s Center for Healthful Living, and he revealed he’s most worried about the couple’s 11-year-old daughter.

"Both Alec and Kim have gone at each other using their daughter as a pawn for power. It leaves Ireland in the middle,” Crausman said. “[Ireland’s] left alone and probably doesn't know how to cope with the intensity of the feelings on both sides."

Just last year, Kim told our own Dayna Devon what she is teaching Ireland about coping with life in a fishbowl.

“You will see this stuff, you will read this stuff, you will hear this stuff at school; but in the end, it will be your truth that matters,” Kim said.

As Hollywood’s messiest divorce continues the mudslinging, the stars are stepping up to defend Alec… including “Dancing with the Stars” alum Joey Lawrence.

“He's a pretty excitable guy, as history has it,” Lawrence said. “So when anything like this comes up, unfortunately, he doesn't get the benefit of the doubt.”

Baldwin also has a fan in Sarah Michelle Gellar, his co-star in his new movie “Suburban Girl.”

"He's incredible,” she said. “He's an actor that I've admired for so long.”

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Mr Baldwin’s behaviour is typical of an abusive spouse. An man who is abusive or violent in the home will always try to deny responsibility for his actions and attitudes. He will always find someone else to blame. He will usually blame the mother for turning the child against him. An abusive man cannot see that his own behaviour will alienate a child. He also will not allow the child any peace unless that child shares his hatred of the mother. Exposure to abuse of a mother hurts a child emotionally and psychologically. I think Mr Baldwin needs to get some professional help. Don’t turn Ms Basinger’s fear of him and desire to protect her child into “she hates him and wants to keep the child away.” That is what the abusive parent wants you to think and it plays right into his hands.

Lucy
May 25, 2007

you don’t have to be physically abusive to be an abuser, people.

rainy
April 30, 2007

From the first release of this tape I thought it was horrible for Kim Basinger to release… Ireland did not release this tape…

I am a mother of two daughters, one of whom is 12, and the term “pig” to discribe your daughter should never be in your language… I understand his frustration… my brother has been alientated from his daughters.. it is unjust!@

Ferguson
April 27, 2007

Give me a break! Kim is no victim here. Ireland certainly is, and so is Alec. Just because someone loses their temper does not make them an abuser. And for the person who said that Alec is a murdeere because he is sad and frustrated and missing his child - pulleese. I am a woman who grew up in a household with a dad who was abusive - there is a definite difference between honest anger and someone who is physically violent. Kim is manipulative and her child may one day hate her for it. Alec needs counseling, and should have joint sessions with Ireland to work this out, but I do not believe that he for one minute that he is an abuser waiting to happen.

saffyre
April 26, 2007

Poor Ireland! That child is going to hate men for sure!

Jen
April 26, 2007

Boy, does it never stop.The true victim in this, is this child. I do not agree with how Alec talked to his daughter, but I think it is more so wrong on what “KIM” did and is doing to her daughter. You sure can tell that the parents hate each other and Kim is using her daughter as bait to hurt Alec, because she is so angry at him and vice-versa. I have watched many relationships go from loving to pure evil and the babys in them is what suffers the worst. Kim needs desperatly psychological help for sure, stop using your daughter as a pawn and let her have her own decision to having a relationship with her Father, all you are doing is poisioning her mind with the hateful and traumatic events in your life and so you are going against her human rights to think for herself.
“DISGUSTING BEHAVIOR” for a Mother who supposedly loves her child. Alec needs to go to “Anger Management” and also realise it is not his precious daughter doing this, it is “KIM” your daughter needs stability and reassurance that you are there for her, not explode your anger for Kim at her. I know it is frustrating to say the least, when her Mother is poisioning her mind about you.
But put the blame where it belongs and do not beat yourself up about it or your daughter Ireland. I feel sorry for you Alec, as I know what a woman can do to their children when they hate you so much (I would never dream of that treatment to mine by the way) Kim get help, I used to like you but you are psychotic in your thinking and the trauma you are causing your child is a crime. Get over it already, you can only push people so far before they pop.

Sandie
April 26, 2007

I can completely understand the extent of the frustration and hurt Alec Baldwin must be experiencing, BUT that is never an excuse to speaking to his young daughter like that, NEVER. It shocks me that so many people are ok with the berating he gave to A CHILD. Really, what is the world coming to that he is the one being defended and not the little girl?

Kitty Kat
April 26, 2007

Yea, well we heard the tapes of the rants and ragging of OJ Simpson “AFTER” Nicole’s death. My ears hear that Alec’s voice on the tape is capable of murdering. These men kill women and children. Glad the tape is released. As far as Ireland, these kids are not dumb and numb. People, this is what this kid has been treated like in the confines of her home since her birth. Alec’s a** is busted, and just maybe thier lives have been saved by the release of this tape.

Jan
April 26, 2007

There are 2 sides to every story, and while I think Kim probably was keeping Ireland away from Alec,it seems she had every right to. I also don’t think that a mother is always the right choice for the child but I do in this case. Geez, all that hatred because she missed his call, can you imagine what he might do if she forgot to brush her teeth at bedtime or brought home a bad grade?!

Ok, he is pissed at Kim. FINE! But DO NOT take it out on an 11 year old and call her a “pig”. Then he threatens to “come straighen her out”. Leaves to wonder what kind of abuse he was insinuating there.

I agree that every parent has “moments” with their child they wish they could take back (like raising their voice)but he is resorting to “bullying” tactics by calling her names and threatening her. HELLOOOOO………..who is supposed to be the adult here.

Who cares who leaked the voice mail…..it needed to be shown publically what kind of monster he obviously can be when he doesn’t get his way.

Kim, stand your ground by whatever means possible and keep him away from your child before he damages her any more than he already has.

Steph
April 26, 2007

People are too quick to judge Alec. You make judgement base on what you see and hear. You don’t even know the reality to it. I was raised in a family where my dad always raised his voice, say things that are worst than Alec, but hey all of his kids turn out great! I understand that he shouldn’t have rant at his daughter like that, but you have got to understand his frustration. Mother always have the right, leaving the father really piss off. You see how crucial the court system is. Mother is always in favor and also in the best interest of the child. I don’t believe that. Both parents should have the same right, just because Alec didn’t give birth to her. Going through this cause a lot of anger, especially on father(s) who’s not being sided like the mother. SO PEOPLE, BEFORE YOU JUDGE, YOU ALL KNOW HOW THE COURT SYSTEM WORK AND YOU ALL KNOW THAT MOTHER HAVE THE TENDECY OF TWISTING A CHILD’S MIND, HAVING THEM TURN AGAINST THEIR OWN FATHER. YOUND CHILDREN ARE GULLABLE AND WILL BELIEVE ANYTHING THEIR MOTHER SET THEIR MIND TOO, CAUSING THEM TO HATE THEIR OWN FATHER.

gv
April 25, 2007

this is unreal how it all gets turned around to blaming Kim! It would be funny if it weren’t so serious.

I can see now why Kim left this ABUSER! Too bad that since he is a celebrity with a lot of money, it will take a miracle for her to get Ireland away from him for good. Be certain though that it wont be too many years from now that Ireland will be able to cut him off from her herself for good. And I’m sure she will.

Too bad though that the damage has been done.

It’s scary to me how so many are discounting what he did. This is the OJ syndrome showing up again!! what a pity!!!!

You all realize that this child is scarred for life because of her father’s abuse right?

Donna
April 25, 2007

I agree Alec made a mistake in ranting at his daughter but considering everything Kim has done to keep him away from his daughter I can understand his frustration. I’ve read the other comments about “Why is everyone blaming Kim” maybe because they have personal experience like myself. My mother did everything she could to turn us against our father and caused me to be afraid of him. It took a scary incident for me to realize that she manipulated us because she didn’t want to share. Any DECENT mother would encourage a healthy relationship between the father and child. Also she wouldn’t allow her daughter to talk disrespectfully to her father. When I was older and hated my mother my father informed me I was not to speak rudely to my mother. I believe Kim loves her daughter but it is a selfish controlling type of love. She doesn’t realize the damage she is causing her daughter. This girl will grow up with trust issues with men.
I would also ask the people who are bashing Alec, “Do you really believe that he doesn’t love his daughter and want to have her in his life?”
Unless you’ve lived through a similar situation you have no idea the damage this tug of war can inflict on a child. Alec and Kim could learn from Bruce Willis and Demi Moore about putting your children’s best interest first.

Susan Kuppe
April 25, 2007

i think what he did is unfortunte, but i believe he loves his daughter, he felt rejected so he thru a tantrum, without thinking of consequences, this little girl needs love, praise and positive feed back like all children do to be confident and happy and successful, hopefully this was isolated , this is verbal abuse can damage her self esteem which can lead to many bad choices in her future if not corrected now and addressed ,
Ireland you are a beautiful little girl, be a kid and have fun, dont pay to much attention to the things your dad said, you’ll find that it will only bring you down, remember all the positive things he’s said in the past and know that that is what he really feels, think of times you said things you wish you didnt mean and you will realize that your parents love you, but their not perfect, sometimes it hurts kids when they realize grown ups dont have all the answers and sometimes we act really stupid, alec should make a public apology and try t omake that little princess smile again.

betty
April 25, 2007

Alec’s PUBLICALLY documented tantrums, screaming matchings and boorish behavior towards his wife, coworkers, and photographers (etc)is FACT.

I would not let my child near this man!

Kim is facing twelve counts of contempt of court for not making Ireland available, notifying Alec of a minor medical situation and not notifying him of her work schedule changes. Jeesh. Still trying to control by any means.

And now he drops his talent agent? Because Kim is also a client?

I’m going to boycott anything to do with Alec…movies, tv, everything!!

Yes, I’m a mother…and yes, I’ve said things I wish I could take back. But I do NOT have a history of this outlandish behavior!

Granted, no one is perfect…I wish the courts would ask Ireland what SHE thinks!

Barb
April 25, 2007

I hope the court orders long term parenting classes for both Kim and Alex. Obviously they both need to know how to parent a child. It is not about ownership but nurturing from both parents.

been there
April 25, 2007

I can’t believe people are blaming the woman again. Blaming Kim for Alec’s actions and NOT holding Alec accountable for his OWN actions. This is shocking but typical. It allows an abusive person to feel justified in the behaviors and continue them.

Hello this is about what ALEC said to his little child on his little girls cell phone Period. Kim was not the recipient of that message the child was and Kim was not the one who left that message Alec was period! Stop making excuses for Alec there are none. Alec should not abuse his child because he is mad at her mother!!!!!!

People are seriously blaming Kim and patting Alec on the back for verbally abusing his child and threatening to physically come there and abuse her. WOW just Wow. That little girl must have been terrified, must be terrified having a father like that.

This is not Kim’s fault. It is all Alec’s doing, it is his own worlds. He can’t pretend Kim is making it up anymore. Alec exposed himself, what more does Alec have to do to prove Kim is right for wanting to protect her child from him?

Maybe to get people to believe Kim Alec needs to give the kid a couple of black eyes next. Maybe if the recording had not gotten out he would have, but them Kim would be blamed for making Alec mad enough to do that too and for letting people see the evidence of what she has been trying to say for years is the reason she needs to protect her child from Alec’s abuse.

Shame on you people blaming the mother for the fathers abuse on his child!

Jo
April 25, 2007

The victims are in this order

Ireland then Kim then Alec.

Alec has to control his outbursts.

GMPM
April 24, 2007

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!Let’s be serious people. It’s true. This is a battle that the public has seen one side of. Guaranteed there was lots leading up to that. And I can’t believe how many perfect parents there are out there. Good luck Alec

binther
April 24, 2007

I agree. Leave Kim alone and get your own life. You don’t deserve to have a kid either, if you feel that way about them.

CK
April 24, 2007

Leave KIM alone?! Who released the tape? Hmm, let’s see. *Somebody* got it to TMZ. Ireland’s a minor. If TMZ accepted the tape from a minor, that’s a landmine for lawsuits.

So you *know* Mommy did it, through her lackeys or through a nod-wink arrangement. The kid is Mommy’s pawn. Disgusting.

Not that what he said was right, but it’s understandable.

Shiraz
April 24, 2007
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