i understand words can hurt, but grow up! there is a war going on people are dying and then there is darfur crisis and the homeless in our own country and the katrina crisis so if someone called me a name so what like the saying goes sticks and stones may break my bones but words can’t hurt me (only if you let them), we have a choice when called a name ignore the idiot(s) who name call they are either just kidding around or ignorant a-holes, focus on the more important issues in life and maybe if we put all the energy given to a name caller into helping the helpless/homeless/defenseless life would be alot more enjoyable! with all due respect! grow up and wake up enough is enough already with he called me this and she said that what is it in hollywood, makes watching tv less enjoyable and dvd/vhs movies more appealing. it is only my opinion.